Saturday, October 15, 2011

Radio Program: [ LOVE ]

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Shaikh Abdullah Faisal w/ Questions by Dr. O’Connor
(Saturday, October 15, 2011)



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“LOVE”

Questions are Dr. O’Connor [Jamaican herbalist]

Answers are by Shaikh Abdullah Faisal [Jamaican Islamic cleric]


People mix up love w/ admiration and other feelings

QUESTION: PLEASE DEFINE LOVE


ANSWER: LOVE is a strong feeling of affection and devotion to some one or some thing

So, it's important to love the right people or things
-when we love something, we're devoted to it
-if we love the wrong things, we will be devoted to the wrong things
-if we love the wrong things, we're on the way to destruction

QUESTION: WHY DO WE LOVE THINGS THAT ARE BAD FOR US?

ANSWER: The Qur'an tells us we will dislike things that are good for us

Human beings don't always fall in love w/ the right people or things

Jihad (holy fighting in Allah's Cause) is ordained for you (Muslims) though you dislike it, and it may be that you dislike a thing which is good for you and that you like a thing which is bad for you. Allah knows but you do not know. (Al-Baqarah 2:216)

This verse is a general verse

-sometimes, we see that women are killed by their ex-husbands or boyfriends
-in the UK, 3 women a week are killed by men
-people die from overdose of cocaine and other drugs, even love
-we're to be rational, not emotional
-we're to be sincere w/ our claim that we love God
-we're to love what He loves and hate what He hates
-people die from alcohol, cigarettes, drugs, AIDS, diabetes
-so 2:216 is speaking to these things we like that are bad for us

We're to follow HEAVENLY REVEALED LAWS - the laws of God
-even in the Bible, it says it's blessed to not walk in the way of the ungodly or sit w/ sinners

Example:
-if we buy a Toshiba computer, it comes w/ a manual from Toshiba, not from Sony
-so we rely on their laws - from Toshiba, and likewise,
-God made us and we come w/ a manual
-we're told there are DOs and DONTs
-we will live in mental depression if we do not follow God's laws
-so we must love what God loves and hate what he hates

DR. O'CONNOR was traveling today on a bus and there are preachers there;
-there was 1 woman there preaching and so he started to preach Islamic info
-and everyone told her to be quiet and they wanted Dr O'Connor to continue preaching

There are people in JA who do not want to give up their religion
-because it's embarrassing to know they were conned about their religion
-it's ridiculous to believe God was born from the belly of a woman
-no one is God except God, so Jesus said do not call me "good"

And say: "Truth (i.e. Islamic Monotheism or this Qur'an or Jihad against polytheists) has come and Batil (falsehood, i.e. Satan or polytheism, etc.) has vanished. Surely! Batil is ever bound to vanish." (Al-Isra 17:81)

And he said unto him, Why callest thou me good? [there is] none good but one, [that is], God: but if thou wilt enter into life, keep the commandments. (Matthew 19:17) King James Version

QUESTION; HOW CAN WE TELL WHEN GOD LOVES US?


ANSWER: There is a hadith [sayings of the Prophet Muhammad] that says when God loves us, he tells the angels in heaven then they tell people on earth to love us and likewise, if we are hated

The Prophet(saw) said: “When Allah loves a servant, He calls Gabriel and says, ‘Verily I love so and so; you should also love him’, and Gabriel begins to love him. Then he(Gabriel) makes an announcement in the heaven saying, ‘Allah loves so and so, you should also love him’, and then the inhabitants of the heavens (the angels) also begin to love him and then there conferred honour upon him in the earth; and whenever Allah dislikes a servant of His, HE calls Gabriel and says, ‘I dislike so and so you should also dislike him’, and then Gabriel also dislikes him and then makes an announcement amongst the inhabitants of heaven, ‘Verily ALLAH dislike so and so, so you should dislike him’, and thus they also dislike him. Then he becomes the object of wrath of the earth also”. (Sahih Muslim (English translation) Vol. 4 pg 1385 No.6373)

Look at BUSH and BLAIR - these two are despised by everyone in the world
-they lied about Iraq having weapons of mass destruction
-1 million Iraqis died because of their lies and they are bankrupting their economies

So, it is easy to know when God loves you ... if we're accepted by people on earth, then we know God loves us

QUESTION: WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LOVE and LUST?


ANSWER: There is a difference between these 2 feelings
-lust is always physical
-love is intellectual, spiritual, emotional, and physical

2 types of lust:
1 praise-worthy
2 blame-worthy

BLAME-WORTHY:

-if we see a girl in a disco and we dance w/ her for 2 hrs then afterward, we have s-x (zina) w/ her
-she becomes pregnant and you say, 'oh she is having my LOVE child'
-but that is NOT a love child but a LUST child

PRAISE-WORTHY:
-if you lust after your wife and you like how she looks,
-you have chemistry, this is a good thing
-marriage is to protect us from fornication and adultery
-but it's wrong to lust after a girlfriend
-love is long-lived and lust is short-lived
-when you're in love, you want to be kind and shower her w/ gifts
-but after he gets her in bed, he leaves her for someone else
-this is called the THRILL OF THE CHASE
-it is an addictive game

When people belong to the world [jahiliyya - Arabic],
-they compete w/ each other to see how many people they can have zina with
-but men lie and say MORE than they actually had
-but women will say LESS than she really did
-there was a football manager who was not good w/ football but he knew how to score w/ women
-promiscuity for a woman is blame-worthy

QUESTION: WHY IS SLEEPING AROUND DANGEROUS FOR US?

ANSWER: Promiscuity means to have many s-xual partners

1 It destroys you financially
-so men have to spend a lot on all these different girls

2 It destroys you emotionally
-he sees a woman as just another conquest
-these are called psychopath
-he can not form an emotional bond w/ 1 woman

3 It destroys you physically
-when Shaikh was in South Africa, a doctor told him that every day,
-1000 people died from AIDS
-there is no outcry there as AIDS is a silent killer
-even when Prophet Muhammad was married to different women,
-it was not for s-x
-they were all widows, except for 1
-so he cut down on tribalism and he taught them religion
-so they could teach other women
-so he married for spiritual reasons

QUESTION: WHO ARE THE PEOPLE THAT GOD LOVES?

ANSWER: GOD loves many people

1 kind-hearted people
-look at those w/ billions of dollars [Hosni Mubarak, example]
-but he is not kind-hearted
-he can't even use all his money but he is so greedy
-but there are people starving in Kenya, Somalia,
-India but he does not share his wealth
-these men are showing-off, so see who the richest person on earth is
-Muhammad said you're not a believer if you go to bed full
-when you're neighbor is hungry

Ibn 'Abbas told Ibn az-Zubayr, "I heard the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say, 'A man is not a believer who fills his stomach while his neighbour is hungry.'" [Al-Adab al-Mufrad Al-Bukhari, #112]

2 hygienic people

-a woman is allowed to divorce her husband for bad breath
-or not showering [men have the same right]

3 pious people
-those who do what is compulsory and abstain from what's forbidden

...Surely Allah loves Al- Muttaqun (the pious - see V.2:2). (At-Tawbah 9:4)

4 just people

-He likes those who take side w/ the truth
-He dislikes clannishness and tribalism
-He dislikes racism

...And if you judge, judge with justice between them. Verily, Allah loves those who act justly. (Al-Ma'idah 5:42)

Some people are embarrassed for being Americans now because their country has killed Americans w/o any trial

David Kelly (weapons expert)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/David_Kelly_%28weapons_expert%29

-this is called "extra judicial" [those 2 were killed = Imam Anwar Awlaki
-and Akhee Samir Khan] (may Allah 'tala accept them)
-the kuffaar practice extra judicial killings (in every country)
-dead men can't tell tales so we will never know
-who killed Dr David Kelly, for example
-every country does this, even in Kenya

5. patient people
-he tests us w/ life and properties
-after all hardships, comes ease from God

6 those who trust in God
7 those who follow His prophets and messengers meticulously

-such as prophet Nuh, Ibrahim, David and Esa
-those who teach THERE IS NOTHING TO BE WORSHIPPED EXCEPT GOD

And verily, We have sent among every Ummah (community, nation) a Messenger (proclaiming): "Worship Allah (Alone), and avoid (or keep away from) Taghut (all false deities, etc. i.e. do not worship Taghut besides Allah)." ... (An-Nahl 16:36)

QUESTION: SOME PEOPLE ARE CONFUSED, THEY SAY THEY WORSHIP 1 GOD, AS DO MUSLIMS, BUT THEIR 1 GOD IS "JESUS"


ANSWER: Some people worship Jesus but he said "God sent me"

And the Father himself, which hath sent me, hath borne witness of me. Ye have neither heard his voice at any time, nor seen his shape. (John 5:37) King James Version

QUESTION: WHAT HAPPENS TO PEOPLE WHO SAY JESUS IS GOD?


ANSWER: IF YOU WORSHIP JESUS OR MUHAMMAD, YOU ARE A PAGAN
-see Matthew 19:17 when Jesus said NO ONE IS GOOD EXCEPT GOD
-they are prophets of God but they are NOT God
-Christians tend to contradict their holy book, the Bible

And he said unto him, Why callest thou me good? [there is] none good but one, [that is], God: but if thou wilt enter into life, keep the commandments. (Matthew 19:17) King James Version

I can of mine own self do nothing: as I hear, I judge: and my judgment is just; because I seek not mine own will, but the will of the Father which hath sent me. (John 5:30) King James Version


-such as eating pork: it says not to, but they do

Jesus saith unto her, Touch me not; for I am not yet ascended to my Father: but go to my brethren, and say unto them, I ascend unto my Father, and your Father; and to my God, and your God. (John 20:17) King James Version

Christians said in May 2011,
that Judgment Day would be then
-but in Matthew 24:36, Jesus said NO ONE KNOWS WHEN JUDGMENT DAY IS, only God knows

If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them. (Leviticus 20:13) King James Version

But of that day and hour knoweth no [man], no, not the angels of heaven, but my Father only. (Matthew 24:36) King James Version

Christianity is such a joke
that they have homos-xuals as their priests
-it says the homos-xuals should be killed but shaikh is not inciting murder against them; he is quoting the Bible!

QUESTION: WHO ARE THE PEOPLE THAT GOD HATES?

ANSWER: This is an important question and many think God loves everyone: not true

God does not like some people:
1 pedophiles
2 homos-xuals

PEOPLE GOD DOES NOT LOVE:
1. TYRANNICAL AND OPPRESSIVE

-oppression is forbidden even for God to do so we surely can't do it to each other

And fight in the Way of Allah those who fight you, but transgress not the limits. Truly, Allah likes not the transgressors. [This Verse is the first one that was revealed in connection with Jihad, but it was supplemented by another (V.9:36)]. (Al-Baqarah 2:190)

“Oh, my servants! I have made oppression haraam (forbidden) upon myself, and also between you. So do not oppress each other. [Sahih Muslim]

The Prophet (SAW) declared: 'Three du'as are surely answered: The du'a of the oppressed, the du'a of the traveler, and the du'a of the father/mother (upon their child)'. The One who is suffering injustice is heard by Allah (SWT) when he invokes Allah (SWT) to retain his rights from the unjust one or oppressor. [al-Bayhaqi, at-Tirmidhi - Sahih]


2. SHOW-OFFs
-God doesn't like people who show off their wealth
-in the time of Moses, there was a man named Haroon
-(he made others feel LESS FORTUNATE for being poor)
-he even paid a woman to say Prophet Moses slept w/ her [but he did not]
-Moses didn't panic, he just asked God to remove this disgrace from him

3. WASTERS
-those who waste the wealth God gave them
-a husband who doesn't work and lays around and expects his wife to work and feed him 3 meals a day

Verily, spendthrifts are brothers of the Shayatin (devils), and the Shaitan (Devil ¬ Satan) is ever ungrateful to his Lord. (Al-Isra 17:27)

-gambling, drinking, drugs and womanizing are the quickest ways to take your wealth
-you will be bankrupt and you're a waste of space
-no woman goes to bed w/ you for free
-they will cost you lots of money
-no woman is allowed to live w/ a husband who does these things

4. TRAITORS
-some people have your secret but only for a time; when you have an argument, they will expose your secrets

If you (O Muhammad SAW) fear treachery from any people throw back (their covenant) to them (so as to be) on equal terms (that there will be no more covenant between you and them). Certainly Allah likes not the treacherous. (Al-Anfal 8:58)

There are 3 people in your life
1 friends
2 enemies
3 frenemies
(only pretends to be your friend [they will stab you in your back])

5. PROUD and ARROGANT
-these can't accept the truth when they hear it
-this is the plight of Nimrod and the Pharaoh of Egypt
-these are evil traits

QUESTION: WHY DID YOU USE 2:190 ?

ANSWER: THE SLAVE MASTERS WHO OCCUPIED JAMAICA, used to shove feces in the throats of the slaves

They did this to disgrace their enemies
-but Shaikh doesn't believe in the "past" [because history repeats itself]
-Fidel Castro put a photo of the Abu Ghraib scandal
-outside the US Embassy there to disgrace Americans

And fight in the Way of Allah those who fight you, but transgress not the limits. Truly, Allah likes not the transgressors. [This Verse is the first one that was revealed in connection with Jihad, but it was supplemented by another (V.9:36)]. (Al-Baqarah 2:190)

QUESTION: ARE THERE 5 TYPES OF LOVE?


ANSWER: YES, there are 5 types of love and we're not permitted to mix them up
People don’t don't the difference between love and admiration and love and lust
-such as you might admire the TALENT of someone
-some teachers like to sleep w/ their students [sleep - s-x / zina]
-in the UK, some said it would make the students learn better!
-what that teacher said was considered praise-worthy
-the white man in Europe believes in promiscuity but in US, they believe in marriage
-only 1% of Americans behave w/ promiscuity
-it's more conservative than Europe

The 5 types of love are ...
-people confuse love when they are in a position of power
-power is the ultimate aphrodisiac [something that turns you on sensually]

1 EMOTIONAL LOVE
-for our parents and siblings [sisters/brothers]
-we're not to exaggerate in this type of love to take sides
-w/ them when they are wrong
-in Islam, we're permitted to marry our 1st cousins
-Michael Manley's parents were 1st cousins [from Jamaica]

2 SPIRITUAL LOVE
-the person is good in character [doesn't lie or cheat, is polite and godly]
-doesn't mean you'd marry him or have kids w/ the man

3 CHEMISTRY
-we're not to marry w/o chemistry
-men need chemistry more than women b/c he needs an erection [women don't]
-"rise to the occasion" means for a man to have an erection

In the UK, Shaikh counseled many couples who had marital problems
-some had no chemistry and thought it would come

And if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with the orphan¬ girls, then marry (other) women of your choice, two or three, or four but if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one or (the captives and the slaves) that your right hands possess. That is nearer to prevent you from doing injustice. (An-Nisa 4:3)

In the time of the Prophet Muhammad, the wife of Thaabit bint Qays
-said she had no chemistry w/ her husband
-so he told her husband to give her 1 divorce and take back his dowry

Narrated Ibn 'Abbas (RA): The wife of Thabit bin Qais came to the Prophet and said, "O Allah's Apostle! I do not blame Thabit for defects in his character or his religion, but I, being a Muslim, dislike behaving in un-Islamic manner (if I remain with him)." On that Allah's Apostle said (to her), "Will you give back the garden which your husband has given you (as Mahr)?" She said, "Yes." Then the Prophet said to Thabit, "O Thabit! Accept your garden, and divorce her once." (Sahih Al-Bukhari, Vol 7, Book 63, No. 197)

4. DIVINE LOVE
-if we do something good, it's written down as 10 good deeds
-if we do something sinful, it's written down as 1 sin because God's mercy prevails over His wrath
-so not under-estimate divine love
-it's more than a woman w/ her young baby

QUESTION: WHAT HAPPENS IF A MAN IS SINFUL ALL HIS LIFE ?

ANSWER: If he dies as a pagan, believing in other deities, have no hope
-the worst crime is to worship a false God / deity /
-worship a prophet [Jesus or Moses]
-it's embarrassing to be conned about your religion
-Shaikh doesn't polish history for you,
-as he is quoting from the Bible

Jesus saith unto her, Touch me not; for I am not yet ascended to my Father: but go to my brethren, and say unto them, I ascend unto my Father, and your Father; and to my God, and your God. (John 20:17) King James Version

And he said unto him, Why callest thou me good? [there is] none good but one, [that is], God: but if thou wilt enter into life, keep the commandments. (Matthew 19:17) King James Version

But of that day and hour knoweth no [man], no, not the angels of heaven, but my Father only. (Matthew 24:36) King James Version

And one of the scribes came, and having heard them reasoning together, and perceiving that he had answered them well, asked him, Which is the first commandment of all? (Mark 12:28) King James Version

I can of mine own self do nothing: as I hear, I judge: and my judgment is just; because I seek not mine own will, but the will of the Father which hath sent me. (John 5:30) King James Version

5. UNCONDITIONAL LOVE

-this is blame-worthy
-it's wrong because you're telling someone
-"I love you whether you are a devil or angel"
-we're not to love anyone this way
-we're to hate them if they become the devil or are a murderer
-we have political correctness gone "mad"
-the only ones we're allowed to love unconditionally are:
-God and His Messengers
-if we don't hate what God hates, He will throw back our love

The Prophet(saw) said: “When Allah loves a servant, He calls Gabriel and says, ‘Verily I love so and so; you should also love him’, and Gabriel begins to love him. Then he(Gabriel) makes an announcement in the heaven saying, ‘Allah loves so and so, you should also love him’, and then the inhabitants of the heavens (the angels) also begin to love him and then there conferred honour upon him in the earth; and whenever Allah dislikes a servant of His, HE calls Gabriel and says, ‘I dislike so and so you should also dislike him’, and then Gabriel also dislikes him and then makes an announcement amongst the inhabitants of heaven, ‘Verily ALLAH dislike so and so, so you should dislike him’, and thus they also dislike him. Then he becomes the object of wrath of the earth also”. (Sahih Muslim (English translation) Vol. 4 pg1385 No.6373)

QUESTION: SOMEONE DR. O'CONNOR KNOWS WAS KILLED BY POLICE .. SO WHAT HAPPENS TO A MUSLIM IF THEY DIE WHILE COMMITTING A SIN?


ANSWER: People die from many embarrassing circumstances
-if you die committing a sin, there is hope for you on Judgment Day
-if you did not commit shirk [paganism]
-we're not permitted to 'write people off'

Verily, Allah forgives not that partners should be set up with him in worship, but He forgives except that (anything else) to whom He pleases, and whoever sets up partners with Allah in worship, he has indeed invented a tremendous sin. (An-Nisa 4:48)

There is a difference of opinion concerning the punishment for the one who commits sodomy. The following are the opinions that were mentioned by Imam Ash-Shawkani in "Nayl Al-Awtar" , Vol. 7/p122-124.


1) That he is killed with the sword, then burnt. This is narrated from Abu Bakr and 'Ali Ibn Abi Talib.

2) That a wall should be collapsed upon him. This was the opinion of 'Umar and 'Uthman.

3) That he should be thrown from the highest building in the city, then that should be followed up with him being pelted with rocks. This was the opinion of Ibn 'Abbas.

4) That he is stoned. This is narrated by Al-Bayhaqi from 'Ali Ibn Abi Talib, Ash-Sha'bi, Az-Zuhri, Malik, Ahmad, Is'haq, and Ash-Shafi'i.

5) That they are burned. This was narrated by Al-Bayhaqi, that Abu Bakr gathered the Sahabah and 'Ali mentioned this, and the Sahabah agreed upon it. It was also mentioned by Al-Munthiri that it was done by Abu Bakr, 'Ali, 'Abdullah Ibn Az-Zubayr, and Hisham Ibn 'Abdil-Malik.

6) That he is stoned, then burnt with fire. This is narrated from the Sahabah agreeing upon it in the time of Abu Bakr.

7) That the punishment is the same as Zina, in that if he is a virgin, he is whipped, and if he is not, then he is stoned.

8) That there is no prescribed punishment, rather it is left up to the Imam to perform Ta'zir, and this was narrated from Abu Hanifah, and one narration from Ash-Shafi'i, and others.

Ash-Shawkani refutes the opinion of the punishment being the same as Zina, as well as the opinion that there is only Ta'zir, and supports the opinion that he is killed, but does not appear to specify which way of killing is the strongest.


-so we can go to a Muslim's funeral who died while sinning
-unless they were gay [homos-xual]
-when the caliphs [successors to Muhammad] used to stone gays
-and burn their bodies and did not have janaza
-if you let the gays have a mosque, they will paint it pink,
-so do not open this door for gays to be Muslims
-they are kaafirs
-when others were killed for crimes, they had janaza prayers
-for them because they were still Muslim

QUESTION: WHERE IS GOD'S THRONE?

ANSWER: His throne is outside of heaven, above the heavens on His throne

QUESTION: IS JEHOVAH, GOD, ON MT ZION?

ANSWER: God is ON His throne ABOVE the heavens
-the holiest place on earth is Makkah, Madinah and Jerusalem

The LORD loveth the gates of Zion more than all the dwellings of Jacob. (Psalm 87:2) King James Version

QUESTION: WHY CAN'T WE LOVE THE PERSON WHO DOES WRONG AND JUST HATES WHAT THEY DO?


ANSWER: We're not permitted to love a pedophile or murderer
-Christians say they hate the crime but not the criminal
-in Islam, we hate both
-but if they repent, we love them

QUESTION: WHAT ABOUT THE MENTALLY ILL?

ANSWER: We're not to hold the mistakes of a mentally ill or the child
-[till he reaches puberty] against them
-or the plz
-Muslims do istinja [we wash our private parts when we go to the toilet]
-in Botswana, many of the men have AIDS because they are not circumcised
-but if they had circumcision, 70% decrease in AIDS

Ali reported that Allah’s Messenger (SAW) said, "The pen has been raised for three persons (meaning they are not held accountable for what they do): one who is sleeping until he gets up, a child until he reaches the age of puberty, and an insane person until he becomes sane." [Recorded by Ahmad, Abu Dawud, At-Tirmidhi, An-Nasa'i, Ibn Majah and Al-Hakim]

In it are men who love to clean and to purify themselves. And Allah loves those who make themselves clean and pure (i.e. who clean their private parts with dust [i.e. to be considered as soap) and water from urine and stools, after answering the call of nature]. (At-Tawbah 9:108)

Narrated Abu Malik Al-Harith bin Aasim Al-Ash’ari: Allah’s Messenger said, “Cleanliness is half of Faith; the utterance of Allah (Al-hamdu lillah – all praise belongs to Allah) fills the scales of good actions; [MUSLIM]

QUESTION: IF YOU'RE MARRIED AND YOUR HUSBAND IS SINFUL, SO YOU LEAVE HIM AND GO LIVE W/ ANOTHER MAN, IS THIS FORNICATION?


ANSWER: It is adultery
-marriage is a contract, so you can break it
-divorce is a God-given right
-when you divorce, you're permitted to re-marry after 3 menses cycle of the woman
-this is to ensure the woman is not pregnant w/ her husband’s baby

CLARIFICATION: WE USE OUR LEFT HAND W/ TISSUE TO CLEAN IN THE TOILET

QUESTION: WHAT IS FATAL ATTRACTION?

ANSWER: WHEN YOU'RE IN LOVE w/ someone and you say
YOU ARE NOT ALLOWED TO LEAVE ME
-or I will kill you or the man or both
-its killing people for s-x (zina)
-if a man has 20 years of good memories w/ a wife,
-and she wants to move on
-he will have difficulty coping w/ her new rejection
-the man might kill her because their jim3aa [s-x]
-together was mind-blowing [wonderful]
-so he will be jealous that another man will enjoy her body, as he did
-he might kill her, or kill himself, or her,
-him and her new husband, or even their kids
-this is pandemic all over the world, even in JA

The 1st fatal attraction was CAIN and ABEL
-they each had twin sisters
-they were supposed to swap twin sisters to marry and make babies
-but Cain wanted to keep his own twin sister
-Adam said we can't change the law, so hand over your twin sister
-he preferred to kill his brother since the law wasn't changed

QUESTION: JAMAICAN WOMEN ASK THIS: WHY CAN'T A WOMAN HAVE 2 HUSBANDS SINCE MEN CAN HAVE 4 WIVES?

ANSWER: The woman who is asking this question, would not even ask the question, if she was listen attentively!

God is All-Wise .. so if women have more than 1 husband:

1 THE MEN WOULD KILL EACH OTHER because men are possessive
2 SHE WILL USE ONE AGAINST THE OTHER

-this is called polyandry [women w/ more than 1 husband]

QUESTION: SO WHY CAN MEN HAVE MORE THAN 1 WIFE?

ANSWER: There is a NEED for it

See Afghanistan w/ 40 years of war, there's hardly any men there
-so we can't say 1 wife for each husband
-men are in short supply
-some men are in prison or are homos-xuals, or are impotent or mentally ill, or are players

QUESTION: HOW DO WE KNOW WHEN SOMEONE LOVES US?

ANSWER: Love is a strong feeling of affection and devotion to someone or some thing

If a person is kind to you, they love you
-if they like to be in your company, that is another signal
-that is emotional

Now if a man struggles to have an erection for his wife,
-then he does not love her physically
-we're not to marry unless we love them physically and emotionally
-we're to like intelligent conversations w/ them
-Abu Hanifa and Imam Shafi'i and Ibn Hanbal = say we must love them physically [have chemistry]

QUESTION: DID YOU HEAR ABOUT THE IRANIANS HIRING A DRUG DEALER TO KILL A SAUDI AMBASSADOR?

ANSWER: No Muslim will shed tears if the US moved against Syria or Iran

QUESTION: ARE SHIAS MUSLIMS?

ANSWER: NO, they are evil, devils and murderers

..."My Ummah will be fragmented into seventy-three (73) sects. All of them will be in Hell Fire except one sect. They (the Companions) said: Allah's Messenger, which is that? Whereupon he said: It is one to which I and my companions belong". [Tirmidhi. 171]

-they give godliness to their imams
-they claim their imams can't make mistakes
-one of their Imams was Hasan and he was poisoned by his enemies but
-they say Imams know everything, which means Hasan committed suicide!
-these are not Islamic regimes

SHIA HUJJAH: The Imams have knowledge of the past and future; and nothing is hidden from them. ( Al-Kafi Vol.1 p.260 )