Monday, December 19, 2011

-239- LOVE LOVE LOVE


~ LOVE ~ LOVE ~ LOVE ~
by Shaikh Abdullah Faisal


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Bismillah...

The word "love" is used, misused and abused
-the same w/ the word, "man" we released a dars on MANHOOD IN ISLAM

We must put the word into context,
-so we know what love really is
-living in the west, we can be confused between LOVE and LUST

Allah did not guide the kuffaar about love and lust
-because their heart is not blessed
-they can't experience the joy of "love" because they don't love Allah
-they say they love Jesus (as a god) but they are misguided about him
-because they don't really love him
-and there is no Muslim the world
-who'd love someone who'd insult Muhammad (saws)
-but the Christians love the Jews, who insult Jesus

~WHO ARE THE PEOPLE ALLAH LOVES AND DOES NOT LOVE?~

Definition of LOVE:
LOVE is a strong and tender feeling of affection and devotion
-to someone or some thing
-if you follow this definition, you can easily tell who loves you
-people who love you are KIND to you
-the worst thing in life is to live in a LOVELESS MARRIAGE
-the best is to live in a LOVE FILLED MARRIAGE

Many don't experience true love because .....
-when a person loves you they enjoy your company
-women from Bangladesh, Pakistan, Asia, India
-want to be w/ their husbands 24 / 7
-a white woman will feel smothered
-so white women are cut out for polygamy but Asians are not
-the Asian culture is one of love but the west is a culture of lust
-these are SHAIKH'S experiences.....
-black and Arab women are 50/50 (they can't be separated too much
-or together too much)
-Shaikh counsels MANY Asian women re: polygamy
-he must tell them that polygamy is the qadr of Allah
-the shaikhs pick up the pieces from these women
-being hurt w/ polygamy and FGM (female genital mutilation)
-so people who love you treat you w/ kindness

~IT IS POSSIBLE FOR SOMEONE TO LOVE YOU OR LUST YOU BUT NOT RESPECT YOU~

The 'thrill of the chase' - in the west, men like to get a woman
-but once he has her, he wants to move on

LOVE IS ALL EMBRACING, SPIRITUAL, EMOTIONAL, MENTAL

LUST IS JUST PHYSICAL


-a kaafir doesn't really experience true love so when they get old,
-the men divorce their wives for a younger woman
-some never had any experiences of love
-these are 'damaged goods' because their family
-never showed them how to love
-these people become vulnerable

Narrated By Abu Huraira: Allah's Apostle kissed Al-Hasan bin Ali while Al-Aqra' bin Habis At-Tamim was sitting beside him. Al-Aqra said, "I have ten children and I have never kissed anyone of them," Allah's Apostle cast a look at him and said, "Whoever is not merciful to others will not be treated mercifully." [Sahih Bukhari, Vol 8, Book 73, Hadith #026]

Muhammad was kissing Hasan and a man was surprised;
-he said he never kissed any of his 10 kids

-the man was commanded to show mercy to others in order to receive mercy
-this is why orphanages are not encouraged in Islam
-they have no parents to hug & kiss them
-the same as the chickens in a coop ... no parents to love and kiss them
-they make the best soldiers because they have no one to report their death
-the kuffaar think they are the best soldiers
-because they kill w/o mercy and get over it quickly
-this is why they bomb wedding parties in AFGHAN
-bastard children grow up carrying grudges
-against society and morality
-they can't even lead the salah

You do NOT need to ask someone, "Do you love me?"
-you love to hear the response
-but you don't need to answer the question

US bomb kills 30 at Afghan wedding
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-125820/US-bomb-kills-30-Afghan-wedding.html

-when a person hates you, they treat you like dirt (harshly)
-so living among the kuffaar puts a burden on them more than they can bear

SUICIDE IS HIGH AMONG THE KUFFAAR
-the top 10 countries are kuffaar

Hatred has already appeared from their mouths, but what their breasts conceal is far worse. Indeed We have made plain to you the Ayat (proofs, evidences, verses) if you understand. (Aali Imran 3:118)

-the kuffaar spew venom at us
-they hate themselves, even

BELMARSH PRISON (UK)
-the kuffaar there treat the prisoners so badly because they hate them
-look at the ummah held w/o charges... Abu Hamza, Abu Qatada,

A hadith Qudsi advocates; on the judgment day, the sins of Muslims will be put upon the backs of Jews & Christians, by the command of Allah, and these sinful Muslims as well as the righteous Muslims will all be admitted to the heaven by Allah’s order. pg 19 [This hadith is sound and mentioned in Mustadrak of Hakim]

SUICIDE RATES AMONG KUFFAAR
http://www.aneki.com/suicide.html

REPEATING DEFINITION OF LOVE:
"LOVE is a strong and tender feeling of affection and devotion"
-to someone or some thing
-when we love someone, we are devoted to that someone
-when we love something, we are devoted to that thing
-if you fall in love w/ the wrong people or things,
-you're on your way to DESTRUCTION
-we must love what Allah loves and hate what He (swt) hates

"But whosoever turns away from My Reminder (i.e. neither believes in this Qur'an nor acts on its orders, etc.) verily, for him is a life of hardship, and We shall raise him up blind on the Day of Resurrection." (Ta-Ha 20:124)

“The one who loves for the sake of Allah, hates for the sake of Allah, gives for the sake of Allah and withholds for the sake of Allah has completed the faith.” (Recorded in Abu Dawood)


-that is the cornerstone of al walaa wal baraa
-because love is a strong and tender feeling of affection and devotion
-to someone or some thing
-Allah tell us in Qur'an whom to love and hate

and it may be that you dislike a thing which is good for you and that you like a thing which is bad for you. Allah knows but you do not know. (Al-Baqarah 2:216)

This ayah was revealed for jihad,

-it is also a general ayah
-some people love to stay @ home and do cowardice
-there are many daleel that are in Quran and Sunnah
-that were revealed for 1 situation but
-the scholars say it is also general

Example:
Muhammad taught us to say "Bismillah.."

-then eat w/ our right hand and what food is closest to us
-this instruction is to the billions of Muslims even today
-don't be quick to marginalize the daleel, because the essence of it is the generality of it

Narrated By 'Umar bin Abi Salama: I was a boy under the care of Allah's Apostle and my hand used to go around the dish while I was eating. So Allah's Apostle said to me, 'O boy! Mention the Name of Allah and eat with your right hand, and eat of the dish what is nearer to you." Since then I have applied those instructions when eating. [Bukhari #5061 & Muslim #2022]

WHO ARE THE PEOPLE ALLAH LOVES:
1. THE KINDHEARTED

Truly, Allah loves Al-Muhsinûn (the good-doers). (Al-Baqarah 2:195)

2. THOSE THAT MAKE SINCERE TAUBAH

-for taubah to be sincere, we must feel remorse AND stop the act

Truly, Allah loves those who turn unto Him in repentance(Al-Baqarah 2:222)

Salman Rushdie wrote a book insulting Allah and His Rasool
-later he said he made taubah and some UK Muslims accepted his apology

SALMAN RUSHDIE'S BOOK:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Satanic_Verses

THE 5 PILLARS OF TAUBAH
i. stop the act
ii. feel remorse
iii if you slander someone, you're to beg the person you wronged
-if we do any harm, we're to ask forgiveness of whom we harmed
-(slander was only an example)
-if the person doesn't forgive you, ALLAH DOES NOT FORGIVE YOU

iv. you pray 2 rakat and pray for forgiveness
v. you pray before he sun rises from the west!

But Salman Rushdie made an apology but that is not taubah
-because he is still selling his book
-he didn't ask the ummah of Muhammad for forgiveness
-he didn't write another book to repair his act
-no one was buying his books until
-he wrote the one insulting Allah and His Rasool
-some say he was an opportunist (kaafir authors said this)
-why did he do this? CONTROVERSY SELLS

FAME is the 1st disgrace
-the game of fame is lame

We mentioned Salman Rushdie
-because one pillar of taubah is to STOP THE ACT
-he continued to make haraam money insulting Allah and His Rasool
-the scholars who said his taubah should be accepted are WICKED scholars
-they were appeasing the British Masonic establishment
-you are showing the seeds of heresy, shirk and kufr, hypocrisy
-the best time to ask for forgiveness is the last 1/3 of the night

3. THOSE THAT ARE HYGIENIC
-we are circumcised because of this
-Allah loves those who are hygienic
-it is halal to divorce a person because of bad breath
-it is allowed to divorce a person if they stink and have a bad breath
-if the person refuses to make ghusl on regular basis

ALLAH LOVES the:
i. MUHSININ
ii. TAUWABEEN
iii. MUTATAHHIREEN

Abu Huraira reported Allah's Messenger having said: By Him in Whose Hand is my life, if you were not to commit sin, Allah would sweep you out of existence and He would replace (you by) those people who would commit sin and seek forgiveness from Allah, and He would have pardoned them. (Sahih Muslim, Book 037, Number 6622)

They ask you concerning menstruation. Say: that is an Adha (a harmful thing for a husband to have a sexual intercourse with his wife while she is having her menses), therefore keep away from women during menses and go not unto them till they have purified (from menses and have taken a bath). And when they have purified themselves, then go in unto them as Allah has ordained for you (go in unto them in any manner as long as it is in their vagina). Truly, Allah loves those who turn unto Him in repentance and loves those who purify themselves (by taking a bath and cleaning and washing thoroughly their private parts, bodies, for their prayers, etc.). (Al-Baqarah 2:222)


-those who are hygienic
-the Rasul said we should not enter the masjid if we ate garlic and onion

Narrated By 'Abdul 'Aziz: A man asked Anas, "What did you hear from the Prophet about garlic?" He said, "The Prophet said, 'Whoever has eaten this plant should neither come near us nor pray with us." [Sahih Bukhari, Vol 1, Book 12, Hadith #815]

Except those of the Mushrikûn with whom you have a treaty, and who have not subsequently failed you in aught, nor have supported anyone against you. So fulfill their treaty to them to the end of their term. Surely Allah loves Al- Muttaqun. (At-Tawbah 9:4)


-this hadith about Allah wiping us if we don’t sin is a Sahih hadith in Muslim

4. MUTAQEEN

Then when the Sacred Months (the 1st, 7th, 11th, and 12th months of the Islamic calendar) have passed, then kill the Mushrikûn wherever you find them, and capture them and besiege them, and prepare for them each and every ambush. Then when the Sacred Months (the 1st, 7th, 11th, and 12th months of the Islamic calendar) have passed, then kill the Mushrikûn wherever you find them, and capture them and besiege them, and prepare for them each and every ambush.

A man once asked Abu Hurayrah (RA), ‘What is al-taqwa?” He replied, “Have you ever taken a path filled with thorns?” The man replied, “I have.” Abu Hurayrah asked him, “What did you do?” He replied, “When I saw a thorn I would dodge it or pass over it or behind it.” Abu Hurayrah said, “That is al-taqwa.” [Al-Baihaqi, Al-Zuhd Al-Kabir p351]

5. THE JUST

(They like to) listen to falsehood, to devour anything forbidden. So if they come to you (O Muhammad SAW), either judge between them, or turn away from them. If you turn away from them, they cannot hurt you in the least. And if you judge, judge with justice between them. Verily, Allah loves those who act justly. (Al-Ma'idah 5:42)


-the people who are not bias
-how can a racist be just?

Then when the Sacred Months (the 1st, 7th, 11th, and 12th months of the Islamic calendar) have passed, then kill the Mushrikûn wherever you find them, and capture them and besiege them, and prepare for them each and every ambush. But if they repent and perform As-Salat (Iqamat-as-Salat), and give Zakat, then leave their way free. Verily, Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful. (At-Tawbah 9:5)

-the kuffaar who tortured Babar Ahmad were found not guilty
-because the judges are racist
-this is a repeat of Rodney King

And if anyone of the Mushrikûn (polytheists, idolaters, pagans, disbelievers in the Oneness of Allah) seeks your protection then grant him protection, so that he may hear the Word of Allah (the Qur'an), and then escort him to where he can be secure, that is because they are men who know not. (At-Tawbah 9:6)

YOU ARE THINKING IT IS NOT THE JUDGE BUT THE JURY

-well it is the judge who passes the judgment for the jury
-they pick up lay people to come and pass judgments in the court
-these 12 men in the jury are in a pathetic state
-because they don’t know anything

WE MUSLIMS DON’T LISTEN TO HEARSAY

McPherson REPORT:

http://www.archive.official-documents.co.uk/document/cm42/4262/sli-00.htm

And whosoever does not judge by what Allah has revealed, such are the Kaafiroon (i.e. disbelievers - of a lesser degree as they do not act on Allah's Laws). (Al-Ma'idah 5:44)

-those who do not judge by what Allah revealed are the Zalimun

And whosoever does not judge by that which Allah has revealed, such are the Zalimûn (polytheists and wrong¬doers - of a lesser degree). (Al-Ma'idah 5:45)

And whosoever does not judge by what Allah has revealed (then) such (people) are the Fasiqûn (the rebellious i.e. disobedient (of a lesser degree) to Allah. (Al-Ma'idah 5:47)


-kaafir is for the Muslims, Zalimun for the Jews and
-the Fasiqun are the Christians
-tafseer of the 3 ayats above

Allah said we should not allow our hatred to cause us to be unjust

O you who believe! Stand out firmly for Allah and be just witnesses and let not the enmity and hatred of others make you avoid justice. Be just: that is nearer to piety, and fear Allah. Verily, Allah is Well Acquainted with what you do. (Al-Ma'idah 5:8)

Narrated By Ibn Abbas: The Prophet sent Mu'adh to Yemen and said, "Fear the supplication of the oppressed, for there is no barrier between it and Allah." [Sahih al-Bukhari (1395) and Sahih Muslim (19)]

When the Rasul was sending Mu'adh to Yemen

-he told him to fear the dua of the oppressed
-because there is no barrier between him and his lord

THERE ARE WHO 3 PEOPLE ALLAH WILL ALWAYS ANSWER THEIR DUA
i. the father for the son
ii. the oppressed
iii. the traveler

The Prophet (SAW) declared: 'Three du'as are surely answered: The du'a of the oppressed, the du'a of the traveler, and the du'a of the father/mother (upon their child)'. The One who is suffering injustice is heard by Allah (SWT) when he invokes Allah (SWT) to retain his rights from the unjust one or oppressor. [al-Bayhaqi, at-Tirmidhi - Sahih]

6. THE PATIENT

-Allah Loves the patient ones
-some people love Allah on the edge
-they go backwards and forwards in the deen
-see what the brothers of Yusuf did to him
-but he had patient so Allah gave him TAMKEEN on the land

And Allah loves As-Sabirin (the patient ones, etc.). (Aali Imran 3:146)

And among mankind is he who worships Allah as it were, upon the very edge (i.e. in doubt); if good befalls him, he is content therewith; but if a trial befalls him, he turns back on his face (i.e. reverts back to disbelief after embracing Islam). He loses both this world and the Hereafter. That is the evident loss. (Al-Hajj 22:11)

SEE PROPHET AYYUB

-he had patience and Allah gave him back his health and wealth

GOOD THINGS COME TO THOSE WHO WAIT
-people who don’t have patience always insult Allah
-Allah will treat you the same way you treat Him in dunya

The Prophet (SAW) said: “Remember Allah during times of ease and He will remember you during times of hardship.” [Narrated by Ahmad]

-so He will give you light and then snatch it away on Judgment Day

THE SAHABAH WERE ON AN EMBARGO IN MAKKAH
-but they had sabr even though they had to eat leaves
-some of you in the west don’t boil your shoes to eat yet you apostate

IF YOU KNOW YOU ARE WEAK WHY DID YOU COME TO DARUL HARB
-you should have stayed in Darul Islam where there are no nightclubs
-you keep apostating and call yourself a non- practicing Muslim
-this word does not exist

IF YOU ARE NOT PRACTICING, YOU ARE A KAAFIR

But if they repent, perform As-Salat (Iqamat-as-Salat) and give Zakat, then they are your brethren in religion. (In this way) We explain the Ayat (proofs, evidences, verses, lessons, signs, revelations, etc.) in detail for a people who know. (At-Tawbah 9:11)

The difference between a man (Muslim) and shirk and kufr is the abandoning of salah. (Sahih Muslim: Kitab ul Iman: Book 001, Number 0147)

Narrated 'Abdullah ibn Shaqiq al-'Aqeely, "The companions of Muhammad (SAW), did not consider the abandonment of any act, with the exception of prayer, as being disbelief (kufr)." (Tirmizhi and al-Hakim, who said it met al-Bukahri's and Muslim's conditions)

Allah put down 3 Conditions

i. if they repent
ii. establish salah
iii. pay zakah
-then they become Muslims

IN THE TIME OF RASUL EVEN THE MUNAFIQEEN USED TO PRAY
-because they know if not they will be called kaafirs
-so Jibril had to tell the Rasul who were the munafiqeen
-because they used to hide behind salah
-so Omar asked the Rasul to chop off the heads of the munafiqeen
-but the Rasul said no

7. THOSE WHO PUT THEIR TRUST IN ALLAH

Then when you have taken a decision, put your trust in Allah, certainly, Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him). (Aali Imran 3:159)

-the MUTAWAKKILEEN

One day Allah's Messenger, noticed a Bedouin leaving his camel without tying it. He asked the Bedouin, "Why don't you tie down your camel?" The Bedouin answered, "I placed my trust in Allah." At that, the Prophet, said, "Tie your camel and place your trust in Allah" [Tirmidhi]


-you should tie your camel then put your trust in Allah
-someone told shaikh he had to travel 100miles
-because his son had a flat tire with no spare tire
-you should travel but with a 2nd tire
-the Rasul told the Bedouin to tie his camel then put his trust in Allah

A REAL MUSLIM ALWAYS TIES HIS CAMEL
-you don’t marry evil men thinking you can change them
-marry a good brother then put your trust in Allah
-oh Allah you are the turner of hearts so turn our hearts towards the deen

They say): "Our Lord! Let not our hearts deviate (from the truth) after You have guided us, and grant us mercy from You. Truly, You are the Bestower." (Aali Imran 3:8)

Abdullah b. Amr b. al-'As reported that he heard Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) as saying: Verily, the hearts of all the sons of Adam are between the two fingers out of the fingers of the Compassionate Lord as one heart. He turns that to any (direction) He likes. Then Allah’s Messenger (may peace be upon him) said: O Allah, the Turner of the hearts, turn our hearts to Thine obedience. (Sahih Bukhari, Book 033, Number 6418)


Some Sahabahs joined the false prophet and died as a kaafir
-when Shaikh asked to have "Sahabah" defined.. they said
-lived believing in the Prophet and DIED believing in him
-when we study the deen, everything has a definition
-if you don't understand the definition, you're a deviant

ISLAM:
-surrender to Allah w/ tawheed, submit to Him w/ obedience and renounce shirk and the people of shirk

8. THOSE WHO ARE HUMBLE TOWARD THE BELIEVERS and HARSH TOWARD THE KUFFAAR

9. THOSE WHO ARE STERN W/ THE KUFFAAR

10. WHEN THEY GO FOR JIHAD IT IS FESABILILLAH, NOT FAME AND FORTUNE

-the game of fame is lame
-a man said to the prophet, who is fighting Fesabilillah
-the Rasool said those who are fighting for La illah illa Allah

A man came to the Prophet and asked, "A man fights for war booty; another fights for fame and a third fights for showing off; which of them fights in Allah's Cause?" The Prophet said, "He who fights that Allah's Word (i.e. Islam) should be superior, fights in Allah's Cause." [Bukhari, Volume 4, Book 52, Number 65]

Those who died in TUNISIA, LIBYA, EGYPT ..
-if they died fighting for democracy,
-they died not being loved by Allah

11. THOSE THAT DO NOT FEAR THE BLAME OF ANY BLAMER

O you who believe! Whoever from among you turns back from his religion (Islam), Allah will bring a people whom He will love and they will love Him; humble towards the believers, stern towards the disbelievers fighting in the Way of Allah, and never afraid of the blame of the blamers. That is the Grace of Allah which He bestows on whom He wills. And Allah is All Sufficient for His creatures' needs, All Knower. (Al-Ma'idah 5:54)

If your aqeeda is correct, there's no need to fear Allah

On the authority of Abu Sa'id (RA), who said that the Messenger of Allah (SAW) said: Let not any one of you belittle him. They said: O Messenger of Allah, how can any one of us belittle himself? He said: He finds a matter concerning Allah about which he should say something, and he does not say [it], so Allah (mighty and sublime be He) says to him on the Day of Resurrection: What prevented you from saying something about such-and-such and such-and-such? He say: [It was] out of fear of people. Then He says: Rather it is I whom you should more properly fear. It was related by Ibn Majah with a sound chain of authorities.


-if you're Ta’ifa Mansoora, you have no reason to fear any blamer
-if you fear blamers, you might have the wrong aqeeda
-when a sister wear hijab and niqaab, she doesn't fear any blamers

'Burka martyr' faces two years in French jail after wearing veil
http://www.metro.co.uk/news/884784-burka-martyr-faces-two-years-in-french-jail-after-wearing-veil

-the white kaafir (gora) says there is freedom but there is no freedom
-as they want to lock that sister up for 2 years

~A SINCERE BELIEVER DOES NOT FEAR THE KUFFAAR - THEY ARE ONLY FUEL FOR THE HELLFIRE~

-the kuffaar ban righteousness; they kill freedom at home
-so how could they bring it to Afghan?
-they allow now s-x between Army men and dogs

SENATE APPROVES BILL THAT LEGALIZES SODOMY AND BESTIALITY IN U.S. MILITARY : http://www.kavkazcenter.com/eng/content/2011/12/09/15488.shtml


And never will Allah grant to the disbelievers a way (to triumph) over the believers. (An-Nisa 4:141)

12. THOSE WHO FOLLOW THE SUNNAH OF MUHAMMAD (saws)

-if you believe in Qur'an, you'd believe in Hadeeth, too

Say (O Muhammad SAW to mankind): "If you (really) love Allah then follow me (i.e. accept Islamic Monotheism, follow the Qur'an and the Sunnah), Allah will love you and forgive you of your sins. And Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful." (Aali Imran 3:31)

And whatsoever the Messenger (Muhammad SAW) gives you, take it, and whatsoever he forbids you, abstain (from it), and fear Allah. Verily, Allah is Severe in punishment. (Al-Hashr 59:7)

Quran tells us some things but Hadeeth teaches us other things

Narrated By 'Ubada bin As-Samit: Allah's Apostle said, "Whoever does not recite Al-Fatiha in his prayer, his prayer is invalid." [Sahih Bukhari, Vol 1, Book 12, Hadith #723]


-such as how many rakat in each salah
-or to recite Surah Fatiha or where to be buried

Abu Bakr as-Siddiq came and said, "I heard the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say, 'No Prophet was ever buried except in the place where he died.' Muwatta imam Malik

-there was so much fitnah where to bury Muhammad when he died
-so he was buried where he died (Madinah)
-because HE SAID IT IS WHERE WE'RE TO BE BURIED (where we die)

In al-Jaami’ al-Sagheer, al-Suyooti attributed it to Ibn Shaheen in his Targheeb: It was narrated from al-Diya’ from Jareer ibn ‘Abd-Allaah (RA) that the Prophet (SAW) said: “The month of Ramadaan is suspended between heaven and earth and is not taken up to Allaah except by zakaat al-fitr.”

-or that it's haraam to marry 2 sisters and lie w/ the simultaneously
-ha! even Shiites believe this ...

Narrated Um Habiba: I said, "O Allah's Apostle! Marry my sister, the daughter of Abu Sufyan." He said, "Do you like that?" I said, "Yes, for even now I am not your only wife; and the most beloved person to share the good with me is my sister." The Prophet said, "But that is not lawful for me (i.e., to be married to two sisters at a time.)" I said, "O Allah's Apostle! By Allah, we have heard that you want to marry Durra, the daughter of Abu Salama." He said, "You mean the daughter of Um Salama?" I said, "Yes." He said, "By Allah ! Even if she were not my stepdaughter, she would not be lawful for me to marry, for she is my foster niece, for Thuwaiba has suckled me and Abu Salama; so you should neither present your daughters, nor your sisters to me." [Sahih Bukhari, Volume 7, Book 62, Number #43]

Say (O Muhammad SAW to mankind): "If you (really) love Allah then follow me (i.e. accept Islamic Monotheism, follow the Qur'an and the Sunnah), Allah will love you and forgive you of your sins. And Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful." (Aali Imran 3:31)

Verily, Allah loves those who fight in His Cause in rows (ranks) as if they were a solid structure. (As-Saff 61:4)

13. THOSE THAT ARE ORGANIZED

14. THOSE THAT ARE UNITED

Had they marched out with you, they would have added to you nothing except disorder, and they would have hurried about in your midst (spreading corruption) and sowing sedition among you, and there are some among you who would have listened to them. And Allah is the All-Knower of the Zalimûn (polytheists and wrong-doers, etc.). (At-Tawbah 9:47)

Verily, Allah loves those who fight in His Cause in rows (ranks) as if they were a solid structure. (As-Saff 61:4)

And obey Allah and His Messenger, and do not dispute (with one another) lest you lose courage and your strength depart, and be patient. Surely, Allah is with those who are As-Sabirin (the patient ones, etc.). (Al-Anfal 8:46)

WHO ARE THE PEOPLE THAT ALLAH DOES NOT LOVE:

-we learn these things so we practice al walaa wal baraa
-we must hate the person and what they do, too
-the only time you're not allowed to hate someone is if they are MUSLIM
-we're not permitted to hate a Muslim if he has a weakness

Narrated By 'Umar bin Al-Khattab: During the lifetime of the Prophet there was a man called 'Abdullah whose nickname was Donkey, and he used to make Allah's Apostle laugh. The Prophet lashed him because of drinking (alcohol). And one-day he was brought to the Prophet on the same charge and was lashed. On that, a man among the people said, "O Allah, curse him ! How frequently he has been brought (to the Prophet on such a charge)!" The Prophet said, "Do not curse him, for by Allah, I know for he loves Allah and His Apostle." [Sahih Bukhari, Vol 8, Book 81, Hadith #771]

-only Khawarijj think like that
-person that drinks alcohol is worse than someone who smokes marijuana
-and yet, we're not allowed to curse the alcoholic
-we're only to hate the kaafir; that one must plot or hate Islam
-no Muslim is perfect
-many of us are divorced because we have no sabr w/ each other
-we can divorce someone if their weakness are unbearable
-no Muslim is allowed to dump a sister, but look at her good points

Saalim reported from his father that Allah’s Messenger (SAW) said “A Muslim is a Muslim’s brother. He does not oppress him and he does not let him perish. And if anyone attends to the need of his brother then Allah attends to his need. And if anyone relieves from a Muslim a hardship then Allah removes from him one of his hardships on the day of resurrection. And if anyone veils a Muslim (his faults) then Allah will veil him on the day of Resurrection (his faults) [Tirmidhi 1431, Bukhari 2442, Ahmed 5650]

Abu Hurayra reported that the Messenger of Allah (SAW), said, "Treat women well. Woman was created from a rib. The most crooked part of the rib is the top part. If you try to straighten it, you will break it. If you leave it, it remains crooked. So treat women well." [Sahih Bukhari and Sahih Muslim]

To persuade the husband to be realistic so as not to seek perfection in his wife, but to consider her merits as well as her weak points. If he dislikes one trait, he will find another to satisfy him. In the Hadith, "No believer should loathe a woman who believes in Allah; if he hates one of her manners, he is satisfied with another". [ Transmitted by Ahmad and Muslim on the authenticity of Abu Huraira, Op. cit. (7741)]

Truly, Allah likes not the transgressors. Baqarah 2:190)


-loathe = hate

THE PEOPLE THAT ALLAH HATES

Truly, Allah likes not the transgressors. [This Verse is the first one that was revealed in connection with Jihad, but it was supplemented by another (V.9:36)]. (Al-Baqarah 2:190)

1. THOSE WHO TRANSGRESS BEYOND BOUNDS

-ex: killing women and children on the battlefield

Truly, Allah likes not the transgressors. [This Verse is the first one that was revealed in connection with Jihad, but it was supplemented by another (V.9:36)]. (Al-Baqarah 2:190)

2. THOSE THAT USE OBSCENE LANGUAGE

Allah does not like that the evil should be uttered in public except by him who has been wronged. And Allah is Ever All Hearer, All Knower. (An-Nisa 4:148)

3. THOSE THAT SPREAD MISCHIEF ON THE LAND

The recompense of those who wage war against Allah and His Messenger and do mischief in the land is only that they shall be killed or crucified or their hands and their feet be cut off on the opposite sides, or be exiled from the land. That is their disgrace in this world, and a great torment is theirs in the Hereafter. (Al-Ma'idah 5:33)

Armed robbers are to be crucified

-why did the Saudi regimen tell the people he was a Shaybani
-many Shebang’s were killed in Saudi Arabia
-the shaikh answered that they can't have double standard so they always name the tribe the person is from
-even though Ibn Hanbal was from that very tribe

4. THOSE WHO LIKE TO SHOW OFF

Verily, Qarun (Korah) was of Musa’s (Moses) people, but he behaved arrogantly towards them. And We gave him of the treasures, that of which the keys would have been a burden to a body of strong men. When his people said to him: "Do not be glad (with ungratefulness to Allah's Favours). Verily! Allah likes not those who are glad (with ungratefulness to Allah's Favours). (Al-Qasas 28:76)

Narrated By Abu Huraira: I heard Allah's Apostle saying. "All the sins of my followers will be forgiven except those of the Muhajirun (those who commit a sin openly or disclose their sins to the people). An example of such disclosure is that a person commits a sin at night and though Allah screens it from the public, then he comes in the morning, and says, 'O so-and-so, I did such-and-such (evil) deed yesterday,' though he spent his night screened by his Lord (none knowing about his sin) and in the morning he removes Allah's screen from himself." [Sahih Bukhari, Vol 8, Book 73, Hadith #095]


-Allah doesn't like people who acquire wealth to show off
-conspicuous consumption
-buying goods to show off

5. THOSE WHO BUY GOODS TO SHOW OFF [conspicuous consumption]
-a man bought a car for 150,000 pounds and he had no insurance
-so he watched it all day!
-Shaikh said SELL THAT CAR
-he was not practicing when he bought it
-he spent all his time watching that car
-he sold it and bought a Honda

Verily, Qarun (Korah) was of Musa’s (Moses) people, but he behaved arrogantly towards them. And We gave him of the treasures, that of which the keys would have been a burden to a body of strong men. When his people said to him: "Do not be glad (with ungratefulness to Allah's Favours). Verily! Allah likes not those who are glad (with ungratefulness to Allah's Favours). (Al-Qasas 28:76)

6. THOSE WHO ARE WASTERS

-Shaikhs best friend in UK was a smoker
-He said the man was a brother of the shaitan

Verily, spendthrifts are brothers of the Shayatin (devils), and the Shaitan (Devil ¬ Satan) is ever ungrateful to his Lord. (Al-Isra 17:27)

Verily, He likes not Al-Musrifûn (those who waste by extravagance), (Al-An'am 6:141)

The man smoked about 40 cigarettes a day

-The man was wasting his money
-He gave up smoking
-He started confessing other things
-when a Muslim is weak, they want you to tell them the truth
-by you sugar coating the truth, you are not helping him at all
-there’s no point in sugar coating the truth
-You don’t see Allah (swt) sugar coating the truth in the Quran

Verily, those who disbelieve (in the religion of Islam, the Qur'an and Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him)) from among the people of the Scripture (Jews and Christians) and Al-Mushrikûn will abide in the Fire of Hell. They are the worst of creatures. (Al-Baiyinah 98:6)

-the quickest way to waste your money is to be a smoker
-a drinker, gambler, womanizer
-a drug addict
-Can you imagine a man who has 10 girlfriends?
-His money will be gone instantly
-a womanizer is a loser
-drinker, gambler etc
-you can’t have a relationship with them
-they are not marriage material
-these men are losers
-a drug addict is the shaitan
-you can’t live with the person unless they get rid of this habit

7. THOSE WHO ARE TRAITORS
-they let your secrets out

Certainly Allah likes not the treacherous. (Al-Anfal 8:58)

8. THOSE THAT ARE PROUD, ARROGANT AND BOASTFUL

"And turn not your face away from men with pride, nor walk in insolence through the earth. Verily, Allah likes not each arrogant boaster. (Luqman 31:18)

It was narrated from ‘Amr ibn Shu’ayb via his father and grandfather that the Prophet (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said: “On the Day of Resurrection, the arrogant will be gathered like ants in the form of men…. [Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 2492]

9. THOSE THAT ARE (MURJIFEEN) (NEGATIVE

-A man who spreads negativity

Had they marched out with you, they would have added to you nothing except disorder, and they would have hurried about in your midst (spreading corruption) and sowing sedition among you, and there are some among you who would have listened to them. And Allah is the All-Knower of the Zalimûn (polytheists and wrong-doers, etc.). (At-Tawbah 9:47)

THE 5 TYPES OF LOVE
1. EMOTIONAL

-love we have for our family (if they do not hate Islam)
-If you love your kaafir parents, Allah will not hold this against you
-This is because of the love the prophet (Saw) had for his uncle

Verily! You (O Muhammad SAW) guide not whom you like, but Allah guides whom He wills. And He knows best those who are the guided. (Al-Qasas 28:56)

Narrated By Al-Abbas bin 'Abdul Muttalib: That he said to the Prophet "You have not been of any avail to your uncle (Abu Talib) (though) by Allah, he used to protect you and used to become angry on your behalf." The Prophet said, "He is in a shallow fire, and had It not been for me, he would have been in the bottom of the (Hell) Fire." [Sahih Bukhari, Vol 5, Book 58, Hadith #222]

EMOTIONAL LOVE REFERS TO FAMILY THAT ARE SYMPATHETIC TO ISLAM

-we shouldn’t entertain the idea that you love your father/mother who hates Islam
-spiritual love is the best love

2. SPIRITUAL
-loving a person for the sake of Allah (swt)
-supreme love


THERE ARE 3 SPECIAL QUALITIES ALLAH LOVES IN US:
i. LOVE ALLAH AND HIS RASOOL MORE THAN ANYTHING ELSE
ii. LOVE A PERSON FESABILILLAH
iii. AFTER ALLAH SAVES US FROM THE PUT OF JAHILIYYA,
---WE HATE TO RETURN TO IT

This proves spiritual love is real love
-the best thing a person can say to you is "I love you for the sake of Allah"

Hadith # 7 of 40 hadeeth: It has been narrated on the authority of Hadhrat Anas (May Allah be well pleased with him) that the Holy Prophet (Sallalahu alaihi wa sallam) said: Whoever has 3 things, that person will taste the sweetness of Iman: -The Rasul use to speak of Khadijah in front of Aisha
1. Allah SWT and the Holy Prophet (Sallallahu alaihi wa sallam) are dearer than everything else in this world.
2. If that person loves somebody, then it is only for the sake of Allah SWT.
3. Returning to Kufr, after Allah SWT has delivered that person, is as undesirable to that person as being thrown into fire. Imam Bukhari and Muslim have both recorded this Hadith.


-She asked why, and the Rasul said she supported her, and stuck by his side
-The Rasul (saw) loved her spiritually

3. PHYSICAL LOVE (chemistry)
-you are not allowed to marry someone
-until you absolutely know you have chemistry

Marry (other) women of your choice, two or three, or four but if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one or (the captives and the slaves) that your right hands possess. That is nearer to prevent you from doing injustice. (An-Nisa 4:3)

-If you know that you are attracted to a certain woman, then marry that woman
-marry women who are pleasing to you
-this is exclusive for the man because he needs an erection
-the Rasul(saw) said to Aisha that she needs to be deeper in her love
-because Aisha cared about the physical love
-the kufaar do not understand spiritual love
-the Rasul (saw) had to explain to Aisha (r.a.)
-she compared herself to Khadijah (r.a.)physically
-The Rasul (saw) loved Khadijah because of her taqwa
-The Rasul (Saw) told his Sahabahs go for the spiritual love
-if a woman loves Allah, do not divorce that love
-ignore all of her weaknesses
-turn a blind eye
-even though the physical love is important,
-the best love is spiritual love
-The Rasul (saw) couldn’t get over Khadijah

4. DIVINE LOVE
-the love Allah has for the sincere believers
-Have you ever seen a woman with her baby? How she loves her baby?
-Allah’s mercy and love for us is more than the woman’s love for her baby

Surely Allah loves Al- Muttaqun (the pious - see V.2:2). (At-Tawbah 9:4)

-the kufaar have a day called valentines day
-the 14th of February is Valentines Day [eidul hubb]
-the Christian Arabs call it the Eid of love
-this day people send flowers, buy them gifts, fornicate with them...
-this is all lust
-the Christian girls in Jamaica are attached to this
-they will dump the man if she doesn’t receive anything
-there’s not love behind this
-if you really love a person,
-why are you only remembering them on a certain day?
-you should love them year round, everyday

5. UNCONDITIONAL LOVE (it is haraam)
-the kufaar claim to practice this love
-we love Allah and His Rasul unconditionally
-as well is the 4 great Imams
-to love a ordinary human being, we cannot do this
-they could possibly apostate from the deen
-we practice al walaa wa baraa

Before the Hour comes, there will be a tribulation like patches of dark night. A man will get up a believer and go to sleep a kaafir, or will go to sleep a believer and get up a kaafir. (Abu Dawud.)

You (O Muhammad SAW) will not find any people who believe in Allah and the Last Day, making friendship with those who oppose Allah and His Messenger (Muhammad SAW ), even though they were their fathers, or their sons, or their brothers, or their kindred (people). For such He has written Faith in their hearts, and strengthened them with Rûh (proofs, light and true guidance) from Himself. And We will admit them to Gardens (Paradise) under which rivers flow, to dwell therein (forever). Allah is pleased with them, and they with Him. They are the Party of Allah. Verily, it is the Party of Allah that will be the successful. (Al-Mujadilah 58:22)


-this ayah tells you we don’t practice unconditional love
-you can’t follow the path of the kufaar to practice unconditional love
-if your parents didn’t attack Islam, you can love them
-when you have kids with a woman, the love grows

LOVE is like a plant:
-it needs water, time, attention, nurturing
-if you don’t feed the love the food it needs, it will not be healthy
-just as a plant needs food and water to grow, the same it is for LOVE
-it must be fed what it needs every day so that it will continue to grow