Tuesday, January 17, 2012

Q&A Muslim Home [Part2]


Muslim Home [Part2]

Question 1: You mentioned mental and emotional abuse of kids in the home, and the parents neglecting their children’s rights such as Islamic upbringing. What punishment will Allah give them and is it allowed for the kids to decide to complain to allah about their abusive parents (like take their good on yawmal qiyama) and not forgive them?
Answer 1:
Allah has commanded you to save your kids from the hell fire.

O you who believe! Ward off from yourselves and your families a fire (hell) (66:6)

Scholars say this means you have to give them Islamic Tarbiyya.

Question 2: Salaamu alaikum. what about if you live in the west, where you are not allowed to beat children?
Answer 2:
You take away their privileges. good character is a great virtue,the best gift that a parent can give a child is good character.

Question 3: Assalamu alaikum Sheikh, what advice do u give to the students of elm, and what aspects of elm should we prioritize after at-tawheed, and how should we manage our time to maximize our studies?
Answer 3:
The best advice is to stay away from the wicked scholars. Take your knowledge from the sincere scholars. After tawheed , the best knowledge is tasfeer and fiqh. The Prophet said the best of you are who learn the Quran and teach it to others.

Uthmaan (ra), said that the Prophet (saw) said: the best of you are the ones who learn the Qur’an and teach it to others” [al-bukhari]

Abu Dhar said, "I was with the prophet (saw) one day and i heard him saying: "there is something i fear for my ummah than the dajjal." it was then that i became afraid, so i said: " oh Rasool Allah! Which thing is that?" He (saw) said; "misguided and astray scholars." recorded in Musnad Imam Ahmad
(no.21,334 and no.21,335)

Examples signs of wicked scholars, they believe in democracy, they slander the mujahideen etc
Stop worshipping personalities and worship Allah.

Question 4: Salaam. During Salah, is it permissible to pray only Fatiha in the first two Rakah, without following up with other Quranic verses)
Answer 4:
To recite a Quranic verse is sunnah. To recite Fatiha alone you salah is valid. To make your intention is one of the Fard aspects of salah.

I heard the messenger of Allah, Sallallahu 'alayhi wasallam, say: "Actions are (judged) by motives (niyyah), so each man will have what he intended. thus, he whose migration (hijrah) was to allah and his messenger, his migration is to Allah and his messenger; but he whose migration was for some worldly thing he might gain, or for a wife he might marry, his migration is to that for which he migrated."
[al-bukhari & muslim]

Question 5: Can u give quick tafseer of 9:122 and explain in terms of Fiqhul waqih (current events). Is it valid to stay behind even if jihad is Fard Ayn. If one stays behind, does it imply you have to be in touch with muslims openly to warn them of munafiqs and murtads.
Answer 5:
The knowledge of jihad is Fardul Ayn. All of you should not go to the front line. Some should stay behind and become Islamic scholars but when jihad is Fardul Ayn everyone has to go forward.

And it is not (proper) for the believers to go out to fight (jihad) all together. of every troop of them, a party only should go forth, that they (who are left behind) may get instructions in (islamic) religion, and that they may warn their people when they return to them, so that they may beware (of evil).
(at-tawbah 9:122)