Wednesday, June 6, 2012

-320- How to be Sincere to the Ummah (REVISITED)

HOW TO BE SINCERE TO THE UMMAH OF MUHAMMAD (SAW)
by Shaikh Abdullah Faisal
05.16.2012 (Evening Dars)


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Bismillah...

We covered how to be sincere to Allah and gave 14 conditions
- we also covered how to be sincere to the Quran and the rasul (SAW)
- today we will cover how to be sincere to the Ummah insha’Allah
- and we have 21 conditions for that

We have more conditions for the Ummah is because man is weak
- we owe Allah hajj and we sometimes owe people
- when we owe Allah and owe man
- we pay man first before Allah, this is Shariah

HOW TO BE SINCERE TO THE UMMAH

1. WE SHOULD LOVE THEM REGARDLESS OF LAND LANGUAGE OR LABEL

The believers are nothing else than brothers (in Islamic religion). So make reconciliation between your brothers, and fear Allah, that you may receive mercy. (Al-Hujurat 49:10)

So whatever label they put on themselves: Indian, Pakistani, British etc
- it does not matter

O mankind! We have created you from a male and a female, and made you into nations and tribes, that you may know one another. Verily, the most honourable of you with Allah is that (believer) who has At-Taqwa [i.e. one of the Muttaqûn (pious - see V.2:2). Verily, Allah is All-Knowing, All-Aware. (Al-Hujurat 49:13)

- Allah calls the believers brothers in the Quran
- and that uproots all the isms and schisms there is

Saeed al-Jurairi narrated Abi Naddra told me of a sermon he heard from the Messenger of Allah (SAW) in middle during the Days of Tashreeq said: “O people, your Lord is One and your father [i.e., Adam] is one. There is no superiority of the Arab over the non-Arab, or of the non-Arab over the Arab, or of the red over the black, or of the black over the red – except with regard to taqwa...” [Musnad Ahmad (5/411) No. 23536]

The rasul said that there is no superiority by race
- we are all from Adam who was made from mud
- we are above one another by our Taqwa
- we have heard about democracy and aristocracy
- Aristocracy = believing the rich people are better and superior over poor people
- Pigmentocracy = racism based on the colour of people's skin

Adolph Hitler and Darwinism:
-if you are not white, you are still a monkey and still evolving

So we have heard all about these isms schisms
- but there is Pigmentocracy in which they brag about there skin pigment
- Pigmentocracy = prejudice based on the colour of skin
- these people are practicing reverse racism
- for every action there is a reaction

You are not allowed to withhold your love for Muslims brother based on racism

And if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with the orphan­girls, then marry (other) women of your choice, two or three, or four but if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one or (the captives and the slaves) that your right hands possess. That is nearer to prevent you from doing injustice. (An-Nisa 4:3)

If a Muslim brother wants to marry from a particular race
- it is not racism but their preference

SHAIKH IN UK
- he used to make a lot of matchmaking
- because he had about a thousand people at his disposal to do matchmaking

- in South Africa they have Pigmentocracy
- in which the white get all the good job and the best life
- but the blacks have the worst jobs

You are not a sincere believer until you love for your
- brother what you love for yourself

Narrated by Anas ibn Malik (RA) that the Prophet (SAW) said: “No one of you truly believes until he loves for his brother what he loves for himself.” [al-Bukhari (13) and Muslim (45)]

In the UK there are more women than men
- so the women outnumber the men
- but you do not see sisters asking other to marry their husbands
- we have our brothers being killed in places like
- Afghanistan, Somalia etc and leaving their wives behind
- the sisters are like this because they are brought up in darul harb
- where they are taught to be selfish

You will not be cured in the heart until you stick to the correct Jamma’ah
- and attend halaqas to remind you

Darul harb is very corrupt
- you find dirty magazines in the shelves of stores
- 12 year olds will see these and get corrupted

When there is gay march protest
- you see some people who calls themselves 'gay Muslims'
- protesting with them asking for gay rights

Western education is haram
- because they teach you that to be gay is normal

Narrated By Al-Bara' ibn Azib: The Prophet (SAW) said: "Two Muslims will not meet and shake hands having their sins forgiven them before they separate. [Sunan Abu Dawud (4/354) No. 5212, Sunan Tirmidhi (5/74) No. 2727, Musnad Ahmad (4/303) No. 18721, Sunan Ibn Majah (4/657) No. 3703]

Abu Dharr (RA) reported that Allah’s Messenger (SAW) said, “Your smile before your brother is a sadaqah for you, and your enjoining piety and forbidding evil is a sadaqah. Your guiding one who is lost on the land is a sadaqah for you. Your leading the blind is a sadaqah for you. Your removing from the thoroughfare a stone, a thorn or a bone is for you a sadaqah. And, your filling with your bucket the bucket of your brother is a sadaqah for you [Sunan Tirmidhi (4/339) No. 1956, Sahih Ibn Hibban (2/286) No. 529]

Abu Huraira narrated the Prophet (SAW) said: “There are seven whom Allah will shade in His Shade on the Day when there is no shade except His Shade: a just ruler; a youth who grew up in the worship of Allah, the Mighty and Majestic; a man whose heart is attached to the mosques; two men who love each other for Allah's sake, meeting for that and parting upon that a man who is called by a woman of beauty and position [for illegal intercourse], but be says: 'I fear Allah', a man who gives in charity and hides it, such that his left hand does not know what his right hand gives in charity; and a man who remembered Allah in private and so his eyes shed tears.' [al-Bukhari (660) and Muslim (1031)]

Abu Huraira (RA) reported that Allah’s Messenger (SAW) said, “By Him in Whose Hand is my life, you will not enter Paradise till you believe, and you will not believe till you love each other. Shall I not guide you to something which if you do, you will love each other? Give currency to salaam between yourselves.” [Sahih Muslim (1/74) No. 54, Sunan Abu Dawud (4/350) No. 5193, Sunan Tirmidhi (5/52) 2688, Sunan Ibn Majah (1/47) No. 68, Musnad Ahmad (2/477) No. 10180, al-Adab al-Mufrad al-Bukhari (980)]


2. TO FEEL THE PAIN OF THE UMMAH

When they suffer in Kashmir, Palestine, Chechnya and Afghanistan etc
- you are suppose to feel their pain

Narrated by An-Nu'man bin Bashir: The Prophet (SAW) said: “The likeness of the believers in their mutual love, mercy and compassion is that of one body; when one part of it suffers, the rest of the body joins it in staying awake and suffering fever.” [al-Bukhari (6011) and Muslim (2586)]

The believers, men and women, are Auliya' (helpers, supporters, friends, protectors) of one another, they enjoin (on the people) Al-Ma'ruf (i.e. Islamic Monotheism and all that Islam orders one to do), and forbid (people) from Al-Munkar (i.e. polytheism and disbelief of all kinds, and all that Islam has forbidden); they perform As-Salat (Iqamat-as-Salat) and give the Zakat, and obey Allah and His Messenger. Allah will have His Mercy on them. Surely Allah is All-Mighty, All-Wise. (At-Tawbah 9:71)

- Allah said the 9:71 that the believers are brothers and helpers of one another


3. YOU SHOULD LOVE FOR THEM WHAT YOU LOVE FOR YOURSELVES

Narrated by Anas ibn Malik (RA) that the Prophet (SAW) said: “No one of you truly believes until he loves for his brother what he loves for himself.” [al-Bukhari (13) and Muslim (45)]

You are not a believer until you love for them, what you love for yourself


4. WHEN THEY WORK FOR YOU, PAY THEM BEFORE THEIR SWEAT DRIES

Abdullah Ibn Umar (RA) reported that the Messenger of Allah (SAW) said: "Pay the labourer his wages before his sweat dries up." [Sunan Ibn Majah (3/510) No. 2443]


5. WHEN YOU BORROW THEIR MONEY YOU PAY THEM BACK

Abu Huraira narrated the Prophet (SAW) said: “The one who gets married with the intention not to pay dowry to his wife is a fornicator. And the one who borrows money with the intention not to pay back is a thief.” [Ibn Hibban in ‘al-Majruheen’ (2/261) No. 941]

Suhaib al-Khair narrated the Messenger of Allah (SAW) said: "Any man who takes out a loan, having resolved not to pay it back, will meet Allah as a thief." [Sunan Ibn Majah (3/486) No. 2410]

The hadith said that when you borrow without intending to pay is a thief
- stay away from poor people without taqwa
- because he is neither blessed with deen nor dunya

Abu Hurayra reported that the Messenger of Allah (SAW), said, "There are three people that Allah will not speak to on the Day of Rising nor purify nor look at and they will have a painful punishment: an old adulterer, a lying ruler and a poor person who is arrogant." [Sahih Muslim, Book 1, Hadith #0195]

Some people will be an arms length from Jannah but will end up in paradise
- because he used to rip off the Muslims
- hence he will give away his Salah and Zakah etc to them

That Day shall a man flee from his brother, ('Abasa 80:34)

And from his mother and his father, ('Abasa 80:35)

And from his wife and his children. ('Abasa 80:36)

Everyman, that Day, will have enough to make him careless of others. ('Abasa 80:37)

There is no currency there on that day but hasanaat


6. WHEN YOU BORROW THEIR PROPERTY YOU GIVE IT BACK

Some Muslims borrow your car and sell them then report it stolen
- Allah said in 23:8 that the believers are true to their amanat

Those who are faithfully true to their Amanat (all the duties which Allah has ordained, honesty, moral responsibility and trusts etc.)[] and to their covenants; (Al-Mu'minun 23:8)

Anas Ibn Malik (RA) narrated the Messenger of Allah (SAW) has never preached us without saying: "There is no faith for the one who has no amanah (trust) and no religion for the one who does not keep his promises." [Musnad Ahmad (3/135) No. 12406, al-Sunan al-Kubra al-Bayhaqi (9/387) No. 18851]

- many times you have a good book, which you lend out but the person does not return it
- and sometimes you cannot remember who you gave it to and they hang onto your books

We preach practical Islam, this is why we talk about these things
- do not lend out your cell phone
- it is too personal, people will want to know, what you are up to
- so they go straight to your sent box
- do not lend out your laptop too

SHAIKH IN KENYA
- the first thing they seized was his laptop
- to search for some dirty sites
- because they wanted to make front page news
- do not loan things because people do not return them


7. DO NOT SELL THEM FAULTY GOODS

Abu Hurayra (RA) reported that the Messenger of Allah (SAW), said, "Anyone who carries arms against us is not one of us. Anyone who cheats us is not one of us." [Sahih Muslim, Book 1, Hadith #182]

- if you have a car with faulty gear-box
- do you have the taqwah to tell the buyer (a Muslim brother)? many of us do not

Shaikh in university
- he had a friend who sold used cars and he said 'perhaps I should sell them after university'
- the brother said: ‘no you need to lie a little to sell used cars, they all have a fault’
- people will cry down the price, so you must lie as a salesman for cars


8. DO NOT RIP THEM OFF WITH HIGH PRICES

On the authority of Abu Hurayrah (RA) who said: The Messenger of Allah (SAW) said, "Do not envy one another, and do not inflate prices for one another, and do not hate one another, and do not turn away from one another, and do not undercut one another in trade, but [rather] be slaves of Allah and brothers [amongst yourselves]. A Muslim is the brother of a Muslim: he does not oppress him, nor does he fail him, nor does he lie to him, nor does he hold him in contempt. Taqwa (piety) is right here [and he pointed to his chest three times]. It is evil enough for a man to hold his brother Muslim in contempt. The whole of a Muslim is inviolable for another Muslim: his blood, his property, and his honour." [Sahih Muslim (4/1986) No. 2564]


9. WE ARE NOT ALLOWED TO TAKE UP WEAPONS AGAINST THEM [not even jokingly]

- we could accidentally shoot our brothers
- then we would end up in Hellfire

Abu Huraira narrated the Messenger of Allah (SAW) said: "None of you must point a weapon at his brother for he does not know whether the devil may draw it out while it is in his hand as a result of which he will fall into a pit of hell." [al-Bukhari (7072) and Muslim (2617)]

Abu Hurayra (RA) reported that the Messenger of Allah (SAW), said, "Anyone who carries arms against us is not one of us. Anyone who cheats us is not one of us." [Sahih Muslim, Book 1, Hadith #182]


10. DO NOT UNDER-CUT THEM IN THE MARKET PLACES


11. DO NOT PROPOSE ON TOP OF A PROPOSAL (to a sister)

'Uqba b. 'Amir said on the pulpit that Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) said: A believer is the brother of a believer, so it is not lawful for a believer to outbid his brother, and he should not propose an engagement when his brother has thus proposed until he gives it up. [Sahih Muslim, Book 008, Number 3294]

- if a boy proposes to a girl, you can not propose till she makes up her mind
- it is not an engagement until her parents agree
- if a munafiqh proposes then you can propose to the girl
- you can outbid them because the hadeeth refers to a BELIEVER

Verily, the hyprocrites will be in the lowest depths (grade) of the Fire; no helper will you find for them. (An-Nisa 4:145)

- if the girl is thinking about a proposal from 1 brother, there are 2 opinions
a) Ahmad Ibn Hanbal says you can ask her
b) Abu Hanifa says no (and the correct opinion is Abu Hanifa)

Wait until a girl is after her idaat (wait 3 menstruations if she is divorced)
-to a widow, you can drop a hint (discreetly) but she also has an idaat of 4 months and 10 days
-if someone did NOT consummate her marriage, she has NO idaat and can marry again the NEXT day

If a sister is divorcing the man by khula, her idaat is one menstruation (to be sure she is not pregnant)
-the idaat for a talaaq is 3 menstruations

A girls’ proposal must be consulted with others
See the hadeeth of Fatimah Bint Qays - the Rasool (SAW) gave opinions on Abu Sufyan and Mu'awiyah

Fatimah bint Qays went to the Prophet seeking marital advice when both Mu’awiyah Ibin Abu Sufyan and Abu Jahm had proposed to her. The Prophet told her, "Mu’awiyah is stingy and tight fisted) and Abu Jahm beats his women." So marry Usamah instead. [Sahih Muslim (2/1114) No. 1480, Sunan Abu Dawud (2/285) No. 2284, Sunan Tirmidhi (3/440) No. 1134, Sunan An-Nasa'i (6/75) No. 3245]

LESSONS FROM THIS HADEETH:

i. THE SAHABAHS APPROACHED THE RASUL FOR SINCERE NASEEHA ON CRUCIAL MATTERS


ii. SISTERS SHOULD SEEK ADVICE FROM THE PIOUS AND WISE BEFORE THEY ACCEPT A PROPOSAL

iii. THE RASUL KNEW THE CHARACTER OF HIS COMPANIONS

iv. A WISE LEADER KNOWS ABOUT HIS FLOCK

v. THE SAHABAHS WERE HUMAN AND HAD WEAKNESSES
- to be a wife-beater is a serious weakness

vi. THE RASUL (SAW) DID NOT PRACTICE TRIBALISM
- if he did, he would have told Fatimah to only marry a Qurayshi

vii. THE RASUL (SAW) WAS A GOOD MATCHMAKER
- Fatimah Bint Qays had a successful marriage with Usaama (she was older than him)
- Allah gives hikmah to whom He (SWT) please
- see 2:269

He grants Hikmah to whom He pleases, and he, to whom Hikmah is granted, is indeed granted abundant good. But none remember (will receive admonition) except men of understanding. (Al-Baqarah 2:269)

viii. BACKBITING IS PERMISSIBLE IN REGARDS TO MARRIAGE
- but you cannot give your opinion unless you are approached for it
- the Rasool (SAW) was approached for his opinion regarding Abu Jahm and Mu'awiyah
- do not become a busy-body and assassinate characters
- wait until YOUR OPINION IS ASKED
- if the brother is a drug addict, you must be honest and tell the sister
- so this is only a time when there is no backbiting; she must be told negative traits

You must also marry with chemistry see 4:3
-and this applies to women too

And if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with the orphan­girls, then marry (other) women of your choice, two or three, or four but if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one or (the captives and the slaves) that your right hands possess. That is nearer to prevent you from doing injustice. (An-Nisa 4:3)


HOW TO BE SINCERE TO THE UMMAH OF MUHAMMAD (SAW) CONTINUED
by Shaikh Abdullah Faisal
05.17.2012 (Evening Dars)
NOTES typed LIVE by AT-21, AT-7 and AT-42
Edited and Formatted by AT-5

Bismillah...


12. WE ARE NOT ALLOWED TO HARM THEM WITH OUR HANDS OR OUR TONGUE

Narrated By 'Abdullah bin 'Amr: The Prophet said, "A Muslim is the one who avoids harming Muslims with his tongue and hands. And a Muhajir (emigrant) is the one who gives up (abandons) all what Allah has forbidden." [Sahih Bukhari, Vol 1, Book 2, Hadith #009]

- some of us will be an arms' length from Paradise but end up in Hellfire because of our slandering
- backbiting is in every culture
- because Judgment Day is far away, people put off thinking and planning about it

Nay, you prefer the life of this world; (Al-A'la 87:16)

Although the Hereafter is better and more lasting. (Al-A'la 87:17)

20 years ago, Shaikh was told about someone stealing and conning Muslim out of money
- subsequently, Shaikh heard this from many others some who were victims of the con
- so if he were asked about this person for a marriage character reference
- Shaikh would be required to tell what he knew

DARUL HARB turns people into scum of the earth
- women are prostitutes and the men become homosexuals
- so the divorce rate is high among the Muslims, as the kuffaar, in darul harb
- some of these women sleep with many men and then sell their stories of zina activity
- so you must come to study circles, like this, on a regular basis

And remind (by preaching the Qur'an, O Muhammad SAW) for verily, the reminding profits the believers. (Adh-Dhariyat 51:55)

THE PURPOSE OF THIS HALAQA IS TO REMIND THE BELIEVERS, INCLUDING SHAIKH FAISAL

THERE IS ONLY 3 TYPES OF PEOPLE IN THE WORLD
i. MUSLIM
ii. KAAFIR
iii. MUNAFIQH

Mu’tazlites - coming up with a 4th category of people (there is only 3: Muslim, kaafir, munafiqh)
- there is no "ON THE FENCE"

What about a faasiq?
- this is a Muslim who sins, they have girlfriends or drink alcohol

What about a murtad?
- this is a kaafir, he is an apostate

What about a zindeeq?
- this is a kaafir, making up his own religion
- the word means "heretic" like Elijah Muhammad of Chicago (NOI)

What about the deviant?
- this is a Muslim, we can pray behind Ashaa’ira, he is still a Muslim

YOU FALL INTO 1 OF THOSE 3 CATEGORIES, THERE IS NO 4TH CATEGORY


13. WE HAVE 6 RIGHTS OVER YOUR BROTHERS AND SISTER, SO GIVE THEM

Abu Huraira reported Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) as saying: Six are the rights of a Muslim over another Muslim. It was said to him: Allah's Messenger, what are these? Thereupon he said: When you meet him, offer him greetings; when he invites you to a feast accept it, when he seeks your council give him, and when he sneezes and says: "All praise is due to Allah," you say Yarhamuk Allah (may Allah show mercy to you); and when he falls ill visit him; and when he dies follow his bier. [Sahih Muslim, Book 26, Hadith #5379]

i. WHEN HE GIVES YOU SALAAM, YOU RETURN HIS SALAAM
ii. WHEN HE INVITES YOU, YOU GO TO THE INVITATION (if it’s haraam, you can decline)

Narrated By Abu Huraira: The worst food is that of a wedding banquet to which only the rich are invited while the poor are not invited. And he who refuses an invitation (to a banquet) disobeys Allah and His Apostle. [Sahih Bukhari, Vol 7, Book 62, Hadith #106]

iii. WHEN HE SEEKS YOUR ADVICE, YOU ADVISE HIM SINCERELY
iv. WHEN HE SNEEZES YOU SAY 'YARHAMUKALLAH’
v. WHEN HE IS SICK, YOU GO TO VISIT HIM
vi. WHEN HE DIES, YOU GO TO HIS JANAZAH

The walker gives salaam to the one who is standing

Abu Huraira (RA) narrated the Messenger of Allah (SAW) said, "Someone riding should greet someone walking, and someone walking should greet someone sitting, and a small group should greet a larger group." [al-Bukhari (6232) and Muslim (2160)]

When you are greeted with a greeting, greet in return with what is better than it, or (at least) return it equally. Certainly, Allah is Ever a Careful Account Taker of all things. (An-Nisa 4:86)

- to reply to a salaam is FARDH but to GIVE salaam is Sunnah


14. IT IS HARAAM TO OPPRESS OUR UMMAH

...“Oh, my servants! I have made oppression haraam (forbidden) upon Myself, and also between you. So do not oppress each other...." [Sahih Muslim, Hadith #6246]

THREE PEOPLE WHO'S DUA IS ALWAYS ANSWERED
i. father for his son
ii. traveller
iii. the man who is oppressed

Abu Hurayrah (RA) reported that Allah’s Messenger said, "Three prayers are surely answered: the supplication of the oppressed, the supplication of the traveller, and the supplication of the father for his son." [Sunan Tirmidhi (5/502) No. 3448, Sunan Ibn Majah (5/30) No. 3862, Musnad Ahmad (2/258) No. 7501, Sunan Abu Dawud (2/89) No. 1536]

Narrated By Ibn Abbas: The Prophet sent Mu'adh to Yemen and said, "Fear the supplication of the oppressed, for there is no barrier between it and Allah." [Sahih al-Bukhari (1395) and Sahih Muslim (19)]

THE MILLION DOLLAR QUESTION: WILL ALLAH 'TALA ANSWER THE DUA OF A KAAFIR?
THE ANSWER IS: YES, THE DUA OF AN OPPRESSED KAAFIR IS ANSWERED BY ALLAH ‘TALA

And when they embark on a ship, they invoke Allah, making their Faith pure for Him only, but when He brings them safely to land, behold, they give a share of their worship to others. (Al-'Ankabut 29:65)

- Allah told us He answered the dua of the kuffaar in Surah 29:65
- but these people tried to pull a stunt on Allah
- so this is the hujjah used by the scholars to say Allah answers the dua of the kuffaar
- but if they purify their dua i.e they supplicated to only Him

Shaikh in South Africa
- some people asked shaikh, why did Allah not leave them to drown?
- because He Knew they will break their promise
- Allah saved them even though He Knew they will break their promise
- so He will use it as evidence against them on judgment day
- because the Kiraaman Katibeen have recorded it
- so Allah said you shall see every single thing you did in dunya

So whosoever does good equal to the weight of an atom (or a small ant), shall see it. (Az-Zalzalah 99:7)

And whosoever does evil equal to the weight of an atom (or a small ant), shall see it. (Az-Zalzalah 99:8)

The kuffaar will beg Allah to be allowed to go back to dunya to amend their ways
- to give up shirk, the worst crime
- but Allah said if He sends them back to dunya they will never amend their ways
- this is because sins are addictive, people do not give up sins easily


15. DO NOT MAKE INDECENT PROPOSALS TO THEIR WIVES AND DAUGHTERS

-there are 2 types of proposals
i. praiseworthy - i.e. marriage
ii. blameworthy - i.e. zina

You would not want people to do so to your daughter
- so why do you do it to your fellow brothers?
- you are supposed to love for them what you love for yourself

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You are not allowed to make indecent proposals to your brother's wives and daughters

Abu Umamah (RA) saying that a young man came to the Prophet (SAW) and said, "O Messenger of Allah! Give me permission to commit Zina (unlawful sex).'' The people surrounded him and rebuked him, saying, "Stop! Stop!'' But the Prophet said, "(Come close)". The young man came to him, and he said, "(Sit down)", so he sat down. The Prophet said, "(Would you like it (unlawful sex) for your mother?)" He said, "No, by Allah, may I be ransomed for you.'' The Prophet said, "(Neither do the people like it for their mothers!)" The Prophet said, "(Would you like it for your daughter?)" He said, "No, by Allah, may I be ransomed for you.'' The Prophet said, "(Neither do the people like it for their daughters!)" The Prophet said, "(Would you like it for your sister?)" He said, "No, by Allah, may I be ransomed for you.'' The Prophet said, "(Neither do the people like it for their sisters!)" The Prophet said, "(Would you like it for your paternal aunt?)" He said, "No, by Allah, O Allah's Messenger! May I be ransomed for you.'' The Prophet said, "(Neither do the people like it for their paternal aunts!)" The Prophet said, "(Would you like it for your maternal aunt?)" He said, "No, by Allah, O Allah's Messenger! May I be ransomed for you.'' The Prophet said, "(Neither do the people like it for their maternal aunts!)" Then the Prophet put his hand on him and said, "(O Allah, forgive his sin, purify his heart and guard his chastity.)" After that the young man never paid attention to anything of that nature. [Musnad Ahmad, (Vol. 5, pg. 256) No. 22265]

Whenever zina is rife in a community
- murder will become rife in the same community
- so Allah mentioned zina and murder in the same ayah always

And those who invoke not any other ilah (god) along with Allah, nor kill such life as Allah has forbidden, except for just cause, nor commit illegal sexual intercourse and whoever does this shall receive the punishment. (Al-Furqan 25:68)

- this is because if you seduce people's wives and daughters, they will kill you
- which Muslim would want you to impregnate their 16 year old daughter out of wedlock?
- in Jordan or Palestine a man will be terrified to seduce someone's daughter
- because you will get killed, this is because virginity is important in their community

Or do you think that most of them hear or understand? They are only like cattle; nay, they are even farther astray from the Path. (i.e. even worst than cattle). (Al-Furqan 25:44)

Imam Shafi'i said zina is a debt you owe

Stay chaste and your women will be chaste, and save yourself from that which is unfit for a Muslim. Verily, adultery is a debt, if you have taken this debt, know that its payment will be taken from the people of your household. One who commits adultery, in return adultery will be commited with him, even though it will be commited against the wall of your house. O man! If you are wise then you should know it (Diwan Ash-Shafi'i)

- so whenever a man is having an affair he is always looking over his shoulder
- thinking his wife is cheating on him

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Some people like to sleep with their neighbour's wives the prophet (SAW) said

Al-Miqdad ibn al-Aswad reported that the Messenger of Allah (SAW), asked his Companions about fornication and they said, "It is unlawful. Allah and His Messenger have made it unlawful." He said, "It is less serious for a man to fornicate with ten women than for him to fornicate with his neighbour's wife." Then he asked them about stealing. They replied, "It is unlawful. Allah and His Messenger have made it unlawful." He said, "It is less serious for a man to steal from ten houses than it is for him to steal from his neighbour's house." [al-Adab al-Mufrad al-Bukhari, No.103 and al-Mu’jam al-Kabir al-Tabarani (20/256) No. 605]


16. DO NOT LET THEIR SECRETS OUT BECAUSE YOU HAVE AN ARGUMENT WITH THEM

Abu Huraira reported Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) as saying: The servant (who conceals) the faults of others in this world, Allah would conceal his faults on the Day of Resurrection. [Sahih Muslim, Book 32, Hadith #6267]


17. DO NOT TAKE SIDES WITH THE KUFFAAR AGAINST YOUR MUSLIM BROTHERS AND SISTERS

- Allah said;

The believers, men and women, are Auliya' (helpers, supporters, friends, protectors) of one another, they enjoin (on the people) Al-Ma'rûf (i.e. Islamic Monotheism and all that Islam orders one to do), and forbid (people) from Al-Munkar (i.e. polytheism and disbelief of all kinds, and all that Islam has forbidden); they perform As-Salat (Iqamat-as-Salat) and give the Zakat, and obey Allah and His Messenger. Allah will have His Mercy on them. Surely Allah is All-Mighty, All-Wise. (At-Tawbah 9:71)

- you have to practice al walaa wal baraa
- so it is haraam to gang up with the kuffaar against your Muslim brothers
- if you do this you become a kaafir
- Allah said;

O you who believe! Take not the Jews and the Christians as Auliya' (friends, protectors, helpers, etc.), they are but Auliya' to one another. And if any amongst you takes them as Auliya', then surely he is one of them. Verily, Allah guides not those people who are the Zalimûn (polytheists and wrong­doers and unjust). (Al-Ma'idah 5:51)

If the Muslim is oppressing the kaafir, like he sold a bad car to him
- and you take sides with the kaafir, you did not do anything wrong
- because the Muslim is the oppressor
- but if your Muslim brother is not an oppressor, then it becomes haraam

The Pakistani, Saudi regimes ganged up with the Americans
- to conquer Afghanistan and Iraq respectively
- so do not take them as your role models

Narrated by An-Nu'man bin Bashir: The Prophet (SAW) said: “The likeness of the believers in their mutual love, mercy and compassion is that of one body; when one part of it suffers, the rest of the body joins it in staying awake and suffering fever.” [al-Bukhaari (6011) and Muslim (2586)]

The Muslims in their love mercy and affection for each other is like one body
- so you cannot gang up against them
- the Pakistani regime is Brelvis
- the Saudi regime is MADkhali
- so do not use them as your mentors because a MADkhali is a lost soul

Shaikh debated a MADkhali and said the Saudi regime was under duress
- that was why they allowed the Saudi-British riba banks - audhubillah
- he also said if you join the UN it is not haraam
- because the rasul signed a treaty with Quraish
- so they lie on the prophet, because they are so desperate
- Allah said;

And those who disbelieve are allies to one another, (and) if you (Muslims of the whole world collectively) do not do so (i.e. become allies, as one united block with one Khalifah - chief Muslim ruler for the whole Muslim world to make victorious Allah's Religion of Islamic Monotheism), there will be Fitnah (wars, battles, polytheism, etc.) and oppression on earth, and a great mischief and corruption (appearance of polytheism). (Al-Anfal 8:73)

There are only 2 religions in the world
i. ISLAM
ii. KUFR

- do not let Shaytan make you believe there are 100’s
- the only right one is Islam, the other one is wrong

At the battle of the allied forces
- all the kuffaar joined to fight the only right religion


18. DO NOT SPY ON THE UMMAH OF MUHAMMAD (SAW)

- because spying against the Muslims makes you a kaafir
- and do not bring us the story of Haatib ibn Abi Balta'a
- and use it as evidence to spy for the MI5
- because when you spy for the kuffaar you are doing so because you call the mujahideen khawarij
- so do not compare yourself with him
- he only did what he did because he wanted his family protected
- Allah said;

O you who believe! Avoid much suspicions, indeed some suspicions are sins. And spy not, neither backbite one another. Would one of you like to eat the flesh of his dead brother? You would hate it (so hate backbiting). And fear Allah. Verily, Allah is the One Who accepts repentance, Most Merciful. (Al-Hujurat 49:12)

- so this is the hujjah

Narrated By Abu Aiyub Al-Ansari: Allah's Apostle said, "It is not lawful for a man to desert his brother Muslim for more than three nights. (It is unlawful for them that) when they meet, one of them turns his face away from the other, and the other turns his face from the former, and the better of the two will be the one who greets the other first." [Sahih Bukhari, Vol 8, Book 73, Hadith #100]


19. IT IS HARAAM TO BOYCOTT YOUR MUSLIM BROTHERS FOR MORE THAN 3 DAYS

On the authority of Abu Hurayrah (RA), who said that the Messenger of Allah (SAW) said: "The gates of Paradise will be opened on Mondays and on Thursdays, and every servant [of Allah] who associates nothing with Allah will be forgiven, except for the man who has a grudge against his brother. [About them] it will be said: 'Delay these two until they are reconciled; delay these two until they are reconciled.'" [Sahih Muslim (4/1987) No. 2565, Muwatta Malik (2/80) No. 1897, Sunan Dawud (4/279) No. 4916]

Narrated By Abu Aiyub Al-Ansari: Allah's Apostle said, "It is not lawful for a man to desert his brother Muslim for more than three nights. (It is unlawful for them that) when they meet, one of them turns his face away from the other, and the other turns his face from the former, and the better of the two will be the one who greets the other first."[Sahih Bukhari, Vol 8, Book 73, Hadith #100]

- the better of the two is the one who gives the salaam first
- if a person is a hypocrite, you can boycott them more than 3 days
- this hadith is only for sincere Muslims
- if you boycott your Muslim brother for 1 year is like you are shedding his blood

Narrated By Abu Khirash as-Sulami: Abu Khirash heard the Apostle of Allah (SAW) say: "If one keeps apart from his brother for a year, it is like shedding his blood." [Sunan Abu Dawud (4/279) No. 4915, Musnad Ahmad (4/220) No. 17964, al-Adab al-Mufrad al-Bukhari No. 404, Mustadrak al-Haakim (4/180) No. 7292, Shu'ab al-Iman al-Bayhaqi (9/26) No. 6207, al-Mu’jam al-Kabir al-Tabarani (22/308) No. 780]


20. YOU HAVE TO CHEER FOR THEM WHEN THEY ARE ON THE BATTLEFIELD

- do not be like the MADkhalis saying: ‘they are terrorist and khawarij’
- helping the kuffar with drones and killing the Muslims
- it is haraam to take your knowledge from a Shaikh who calls the mujahideen terrorist and khawarij
- if you are not a munafiq, why would you listen to a munafiq? likes attracts likes


21. LOOK AFTER THEIR WIDOWS AND ORPHANS WHEN THEY DIE ON THE BATTLEFIELD