Sunday, May 5, 2013

TAINTED LOVE - NOTES & AUDIO


By Shaikh Abdullah Faisal


-- TAINTED LOVE -- 

BY SHAIKH ABDULLAH EL-FAISAL

Evening dars in Authentic Tauheed paltalk room: 20/04/2013
[ Live notes typed by AT10, AT7 & abdul malik_4
Quran hujjah by AT38. Hadith and other hujjah by AT5 ]
(Edited and posted by AT10)


We have 5 types of love we spoke about before
1. PHYSICAL
2. EMOTIONAL
3. SPIRITUAL
4. DIVINE
5. UNCONDITIONAL LOVE

- We did not include tainted love in the list above
- because it is so huge
- so it has to be dealt with separately
- Tainted means something not pure
- it is mixed with something else and the desired effect is not achieved
- There are many hypocrites who fake love
- there are a lot of people in the world today, who are liars and hypocrites
- there are over 20 signs of true love
- the tainted love is a fake love
- people lie in their personal relationships about love
- not only do they lie about their personal relationships
- they also lie about love in regards to Allah, His Prophets and Messengers

- Let us begin with Allah
- You claim to love Allah, but Salah is a burden on you
- So you're claim to love Allah is fake.
- The prophet said this is a sign of a munafiq

Abu Huraira (RA) narrated that the Messenger of Allah (SAW) said "The heaviest salat for the hypocrite is that of Isha'a and Fajr and if they knew what was in them they would have attended them even if it meant crawling, and I have a strong desire to order the salat to be established, then order a man to lead the people in salat then I would go with some men carrying bundles of wood to a people not attending the salat and burn their houses on them." [al-Bukhari (657) and Muslim (651)]

- THE JEWS -
- Let us take a look at the Jews
- They claim to love Abraham
- They brag and boast that they belong to the Abrahamic Faith

Is it that whenever there came to you a Messenger with what you yourselves desired not, you grew arrogant? Some, you disbelieved and some, you killed. (Al-Baqarah 2:87)

And when Our Messengers came to Ibrāhim (Abraham) with the glad tidings they said: "Verily, we are going to destroy the people of this [Lout's (Lot's)] town (i.e. the town of Sodom in Palestine) truly, its people have been Zālimûn [wrong-doers, polytheists and disobedient to Allāh, and have also belied their Messenger Lout (Lot)]." (Al-'Ankabut 29:31)

Ibrāhim (Abraham) said: "But there is Lout (Lot) in it." They said:"We know better who is there, we will verily save him [Lout (Lot)] and his family, except his wife, she will be of those who remain behind (i.e. she will be destroyed along with those who will be destroyed from her folk)." (Al-'Ankabut 29:32)

- Abraham didn't kill prophets: he was concerned about The Prophet Lut was there in the city
- the modus operandi of the Jews is to kill prophets
- you the Jews you kill prophets
- Stop claiming that you follow Abraham
- When you really love a person, you follow them in regards to aqeedah, fiqh and manhaj
- why do we eat with our right hand, and enter the bathroom with the left foot
- We observe the same bathroom etiquettes as the Prophet Muhammad

- The Jews dabbled in Black Magic
- they used it to break up man from wife

They followed what the Shayâtin (devils) gave out (falsely of the magic) in the lifetime of Sulaimân (Solomon). Sulaimân did not disbelieve, but the Shayâtin (devils) disbelieved, teaching men magic and such things that came down at Babylon to the two (angels,) Hârût and Mârût, but neither of these two angels taught anyone (such things) till they had said, "We are only for trial, so disbelieve not (by learning this magic from us)." And from these (angels) people learn that by which they cause separation between man and his wife, but they could not thus harm anyone except by Allâh's Leave. And they learn that which harms them and profits them not. And indeed they knew that the buyers of it (magic) would have no share in the Hereafter. And how bad indeed was that for which they sold their ownselves, if they but knew. (Al Baqarah 2:102)

- the Jews worshipped the golden calf
- That is paganism
- When did the Prophet Abraham practice Paganism?
- Allah Said: Abraham was a Muslim, not of the Mushrikeen:

Ibrāhim (Abraham) was neither a Jew nor a Christian, but he was a true Muslim Hanifa (Islāmic Monotheism - to worship none but Allāh Alone) and he was not of Al-Mushrikûn (See V.2:105). (Aali Imran 3:67)

- Abraham is innocent of what you are doing
- both Christians and Jews claim Abraham for themselves

- The Jews insulted Allah, they said, Allah is poor

(Verily Allah heard the saying of those who said…) [3:181]. ‘Ikrimah, al-Suddi and Muqatil ibn Ishaq related that, one day, Abu Bakr al-Siddiq entered a Jewish place of study and found a group of Jewish people gathered around one of them called Finhas ibn ‘Azura, who was one of their doctors. Abu Bakr said to Finhas: “Fear Allah and embrace Islam, for by Allah you know well that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah who has brought the truth to you from Allah. He is mentioned in your Torah; so believe and accept the truth and grant Allah a goodly offering and He will make you enter the Garden and multiply your reward”.

Finhas responded: “O Abu Bakr, you claim that our Lord is asking us to lend Him our wealth. Yet, it is only the poor who borrow from the rich. And if what you say is true, it follows that Allah is poor and we are rich, for if He were rich He would not ask us to lend Him our wealth”. Abu Bakr al-Siddiq, may Allah be well pleased with him, became very angry and struck the face of Finhas with a mighty blow. He then said to him: “By Him in whose Hand is my soul, if it were not for the treaty between us, O enemy of Allah, I would have killed you”.

Finhas went to the Messenger of Allah, Allah bless him and give him peace, and said: “O Muhammad! Look at what your companion has done to me”. The Messenger of Allah, Allah bless him and give him peace, asked Abu Bakr: “What has driven you to do what you have done?” He said: “O Messenger of Allah, this enemy of Allah has said something very serious. He claimed that Allah is poor and they are rich. I therefore got angry for the sake of Allah and hit his face”. But Finhas denied that he ever uttered those words, and so Allah, exalted is He, revealed this verse (Verily Allah heard the saying of those who said…) to give the lie to Finhas and to confirm that Abu Bakr al-Siddiq said the truth. ‘Abd al-Qahir ibn Tahir informed us> Abu ‘Amr ibn Matar> Ja‘far ibn al-Layth al-Ziyadi> Hudhayfah Musa ibn Mas‘ud> Shibl> Ibn Abi Najih> Mujahid who said: “This verse was revealed about the Jews; Abu Bakr, may Allah be well pleased with him, had struck the face of one of their men who said ‘Allah is poor and we are rich’ ”. Shibl commented: “I was informed that this man was Finhas the Jew, and it is also this man who said: (Allah’s hand is fettered) [5:64]”. [Asbab Al-Nuzul by Al-Wahidi , trans. Mokrane Guezzou]

Indeed, Allāh has heard the statement of those (Jews) who say: "Truly, Allāh is poor and we are rich!" We shall record what they have said and their killing of the Prophets unjustly, and We shall say: "Taste you the torment of the burning (Fire)." (Aali Imran 3:181)

- Abu Bakr punched the Jew in the face
- Abu Bakr said the Jew said that Allah is poor but they (the jews) were rich.

- They insulted Allah again:

The Jews say: "Allāh's Hand is tied up (i.e. He does not give and spend of His Bounty)." Be their hands tied up and be they accursed for what they uttered. Nay, both His Hands are widely outstretched. He spends (of His Bounty) as He wills. Verily, the Revelation that has come to you from Allāh increases in most of them their obstinate rebellion and disbelief. We have put enmity and hatred amongst them till the Day of Resurrection. Every time they kindled the fire of war, Allāh extinguished it; and they (ever) strive to make mischief on earth. And Allāh does not like the Mufsidûn (mischief­makers). (Al-Ma'idah 5:64)

- Allah's Hands are tied has two meanings:
- Allah is stingy, (withholds His Bounties)
- Allah cannot stop us from our mischief

- The prophet said, The most severe of punishment on Judgement day is the one who killed a prophet, or was killed by a prophet.

Ibn Abbas (RA) narrated the Messenger of Allah (SAW) said: "Verily the most painful punishment on the Day of Judgment are those who kill the prophets or people murdered by the prophet or kill one of his parents, and making statues and knowledgeable people who do not benefit from his knowledge." [related by Bayhaqi in 'Shu'ab al-Iman' (10/288) No. 7504]

- THE CHRISTIANS:
- Let us now refute the Christians who claim that they love Jesus
- They say "we follow Christ because we love Christ"
- The christian love for Jesus is fake

And he said unto him, Why callest thou me good? [there is] none good but one, [that is], God: but if thou wilt enter into life, keep the commandments. (Matthew 19:17) King James Version

I can of mine own self do nothing: as I hear, I judge: and my judgment is just; because I seek not mine own will, but the will of the Father which hath sent me. (John 5:30) King James Version

And the Father himself, which hath sent me, hath borne witness of me. Ye have neither heard his voice at any time, nor seen his shape. (John 5:37) King James Version

- You don't follow Jesus in any way what so ever.
- How would Jesus accept people calling him god.
- How can God be stripped of His Authority?

And one of the scribes came, and having heard them reasoning together, and perceiving that he had answered them well, asked him, Which is the first commandment of all? (Mark 12:28) King James Version

- When you look at the teachings of Jesus, you see he preached Tauheed [Monotheism].

Jesus answered him, The first of all the commandments is, Hear, O Israel; The Lord our God is one Lord. (Mark 12:29) King James Version

- You claim you follow Jesus because you love Jesus.
- Jesus was circumcised, you the Christians eat pork and are uncircumcised
- How is that following Jesus?
- You have gay churches all over the world
- When did Jesus promote homosexuality?
- Why do you then have gay churches?
- You don't follow Jesus you follow your evil and corrupted desires

If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them. (Leviticus 20:13) King James Version

Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful: (Romans 1:31) King James Version

Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them. (Romans 1:32) King James Version

- You (the Christians) love Jews
- Yet no one hates Jesus more than the Jews
- They say that Jesus was a bastard child, and his mother Maryam was a whore.
- bastard (illegitimate child) - whore (loose woman).

Sanhedrin 106a . Says Jesus' mother was a whore: "She who was the descendant of princes and governors played the harlot with carpenters." Also in footnote #2 to Shabbath 104b of the Soncino edition, it is stated that in the "uncensored" text of the Talmud it is written that Jesus mother, "Miriam the hairdresser," had sex with many men.

- Harlot = Whore

Gittin 57a. Says Jesus is in hell, being boiled in "hot excrement."

Sanhedrin 43a. Says Jesus ("Yeshu" and in Soncino footnote #6, Yeshu "the Nazarene") was executed because he practiced sorcery: "It is taught that on the eve of Passover Jesus was hung, and forty days before this the proclamation was made: Jesus is to be stoned to death because he has practiced sorcery and has lured the people to idolatry...He was an enticer and of such thou shalt not pity or condone."

Kallah 51a."The elders were once sitting in the gate when two young lads passed by; one covered his head and the other uncovered his head. Of him who uncovered his head Rabbi Eliezer remarked that he is a bastard. Rabbi Joshua remarked that he is the son of a niddah (a child conceived during a woman's menstrual period). Rabbi Akiba said that he is both a bastard and a son of a niddah.

- In our Book, The Quran: There is a Surah called Maryam.
- We show maximum respect to Maryam (a.s)
- Niddah the Hebrew word: means "a child conceived during the mothers menstruation"
- Christians are aware that the Jews have this to say about Jesus
- The Christians' love for Jesus (a.s) is fake and tainted.

- THE HANAFIS:

- Hanafis (those who claim to follow Abu Hanifah) have tainted love as well.
- The Most Merciful Rose Above The Arsh
- They (those who claim to be "Hanafis") believe Allah is every where, not that Allah is above His Arsh.
- However, Abu Hanifah said that whoever denies that Allah's Arsh is above the heavens is a kaafir

Abu Haneefah (rh) said, when asked of his opinion of the one who says, ‘I do not know whether Allah is above the heavens or on the earth.’ - “He has disbelieved, because Allah says, “The Most Merciful rose above the Throne,” and His Throne is above His seven heavens.’ He was then asked , ‘what if he said that Allah is above His Throne but he does not know whether the Throne is in the heavens or on the earth?’ He said, ‘He has disbelieved, because He has denied that He is above the heavens, And whosoever denied that He is above the heavens has disbelieved.” (‘Sharh Usul I'tiqaad Ahlus Sunnah’ of al-Laalikaaee (d.414AH), ‘al-Uluww’ of adh- Dhahabee, also ‘Sharh Aqueedah at-Tahaawiyyah’ of ibn Abee al-Izz al-Hanafee)

- THE MALIKI SUFIS:

- The Maliki sufis call themselves "Al Muraabitoon"
- Their leader is called Ian Dallas: [Abdalqadir as-Sufi a whilte "revert" born 1930 Ian Dallas in Ayr, Scotland.]
- When Shaikh was on tour in South Africa
- Dr. Hakim Quick took Shaikh to their Masjid
- This Ian Dallas said the women don't need to wear hijab
- He said hijab is only for the Arabs.
- When the women came to the masjid, they were dressed like catwalk models

Ja'far Ibn Abdullah narrated: We were with Malik Ibn Anas when a man came to him and said: “O Abu Abdullah (Allah said) 'Ar-Rahman upon the Throne Istawa' (20:5), how was His Istiwa? Imam Malik inclined his head and was silent until the sweat of fever covered his brow, then he looked up and said: "Istiwa is not unknown, the Kayf (how) is uncomprehendable, believing in it is wajib (obligatory), and asking about it is bid'ah (innovation), and I do not think that you are anything but an innovator." Then he ordered that the man be expelled. [Abu-Naeem Al-Asbahani in 'Hilyatul-Awliya wa Tabaqat Al-Asfiya' (Vol. 6, pg. 325-326)]

- The Maaliki Sufis don't believe in this
- They don't believe that Allah is Above the Arsh
- They pray with their hands at their side
- Imam Malik prayed with his hands at his side
- because his hands were broken by the caliph Abu Ja`far al-Mansur
- We put it to you: You don't follow Imam Malik:
- You follow your evil and corrupted desires
- Your love is tainted.

- THE SAUDI SALAFIS : AKA "THE MADHKHALIS":

- They claim "we follow Ibn Kathir and Ibn Taymiyyah and Ibn Baaz"
- They don't follow them and they don't have their aqeedah
- They claim that to dismantle the Shariah of Allah is Minor Kufr
- Let us see what these three scholars said about dismantling the Shariah:

Ibn Taymiyyah (rh) said: “And it is known from the religion (of Islam) by necessity and by the consensus of all Muslims that whoever legalizes to follow other than the religion of Islam or a Shariah other than the Shariah of Muhammad (SAW), he is a Kaafir. And his kufr is similar to that of the one who believes in some part of the book (Quran) and reject some of it.” [Majmua al-Fataawa (28/524)]

Ibn Kathir (rh) said: “So Whosoever abandons the wise Shariah which was revealed upon Muhammad ibn Abdullah, the seal of the prophets, and goes to other abrogated Shariah for judgment, he becomes a Kaafir. So how about the one who goes to al-Yaasiq (man-made law) for judgment and gives it precedence (over the Shariah of Muhammad (SAW). Whosoever does this has become a Kaafir by the Ijma of the Muslims.” [Al-Bidayah Wan-Nihayah, (Vol. 13, p119)]

Shaikh 'Abdul-'Azeez Ibn 'Abdullah Ibn Baaz said: "There is no Eeman for the one who believes the laws of the people and their opinions are superior to the Hukm of Allah and His Messenger or that they are equal to it or that they resemble it or who leaves it or replaces it with fabricated laws and institutions invented by people, even if he believes that the laws of Allah are more encompassing and more just." [Wujoob Tah'keem Shari'ah Allah' (pg. 16-17)]

- People like to make claims: But when you study their character and aqeedah: Their claim is false and fake.
- What Bin Baz is saying: "I don't care what you believe in your heart, once you dismantle the Shariah you become a disbeliever".
- This love is tainted and mixed with something else.

- TAINTED LOVE IN PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS:

- What is Love?
- Love is a strong and tender feeling of affection and devotion to someone or something.
- Promiscuity taints the love
- If you can't love the Creator you cannot love the creation
- What kufaar practice: is lust not love
- because kufaar do not love Allah.
- This is why they cannot stop cheating on each other: because the love is fake

--THE 23 SIGNS OF TRUE LOVE --

- 1. You feel happy to be in their company, and time flies very fast in their company.
- Three or four hours elapse and you can't believe it.

- 2. The person doesn't ask for any space.
- If you live with a man or a woman and they keep asking for space: they don't love you.
- Your partner is supposed to be crazy about you and want to be with you 24/7

- 3. You respect each other.
- Love without respect is useless.

- 4. You care about the feelings of each other and you strive towards compatibility.
- You find out what the person likes and you try to do that.

- 5. They accept you as you are and they over look your weaknesses.
- If the person accepts you as you are and over looks your weaknesses, they love you.
- When a person doesn't love you, they find fault in every thing you do.
- Simple things like slurping soup.
- When a person loves you, you can get away with murder with them. They will turn a blind eye.

- 6. They are fair and willing to compromise. They sacrifice, and they are unselfish in the relationship.
- When a person doesn't love you they say "It's either my way or the high way".
- If they loved you it would be a give and take relationship.

- 7. When they sit with you and discuss with you, they plan the future with you.
- They plan how many children you may want to have together.
- They don't say "I want out". To divorce.
- If they plan the future with you, they love you and they see themselves growing old with you.

- 8. They are fiercely loyal to you, and they don't allow anyone to bad mouth you.
- At any time whether behind your back or in front of you.
- Aisha stood up for the Prophet when the Jews spoke to the Prophet in a bad way.

Aisha (RA) narrated; ‘A company of Jews visited the Prophet (SAW) and said, ‘As-saam alayk’ The Prophet (SAW) said, “Wa alayk.” [Their words meant ‘death to you’ and the Prophet (SAW) said ‘same to you’]. I said to them, “Death to you all and the curse.” So the Prophet (SAW) said, “O Aisha, Allah loves mildness in affairs, all of them.” I asked, “Did you not hear what they said?” He said, “Indeed I responded with (on you, what you say).” [Bukhari 6356, Muslim 2165, Tirmidhi 2710, Ibn e Majah 3698, Ahmed 24145]

- 9. They don't compare you to a previous partner and use that to give you emotional insecurities.
- Love brings security, not insecurity.
- They don't flirt with other men to make their husbands jealous.
- Why doesn't she do that? Because she respects your feelings.
- Neither does the husband use a co-wife to give his first wife emotional insecurities.

- 10. You feel safe with the person and you don't think they are going to leave you for another person.
- You don't think they will run off with anyone else.
- Someone younger, richer or more handsome than you.

- 11. They keep paying you compliments.
- A woman doesn't want a boring husband.
- You have to chat up your wife.

- 12. They don't get tired of saying "I love you", and you don't get tired of hearing "I love you".
- The man is not too proud to say he loves his wife.
- You should show your partner the love by being kind and gentle to them, not just say it.

- 13. They shower you with gifts.
- Because love is kindness:
- If you claim to love a person but you fail to give them anything, the love is fake.
- Some men buy cars for their wives.

- 14. The person likes to have sexual relations with you.
- If you have a wife and she is happy to go to bed with you in the early days, but after some years she will say she's "not in the mood".
- If this is the case, her love is tainted.
- She may be having an affair.
- If a woman calls her husband to bed: and he gives you an attitude problem, it means he is having an affair.
- When love is tainted, there is a sudden change in the attitude.

- 15. The person loves you even when you become old and grey and you have dentures.
- If the love is still there, that is true love.
- Shaikh was in South Africa.
- Asked a couple whether their marriage was love marriage or arranged.
- They said it was the first time a Shaikh had asked them about this.
- It was good for them because it made them reflect.

- Aisha asked the Prophet why he kept talking about Khadijah.
- As Khadijah was an old woman with wrinkles.
- The Prophet said: She (Khadijah) believed in me when everybody else rejected me.
- Aisha was looking at physical love.
- The Prophet referred to Spiritual love.

Khadijah was in fact a blessing of Allah for the Prophet [pbuh] . She, for twenty- five years, shared with him the toils and trials of life, especially in the first ten years of his ministry of Prophethood. He deeply mourned over her death, and once he replied in an honest burst of tender emotions: "She believed in me when none else did. She embraced Islam when people disbelieved me. And she helped and comforted me in her person and wealth when there was none else to lend me a helping hand. I had children from her only."[Musnad Imam Ahmad 6/118]

- Even though he married her when she was 40, she bore him 6 children.
- Two sons, Qasim and Abdullah, and four daughters: Zainub, Ruqaiyyah, Fatimah and Umm Kulthum.

- 16. They listen to you attentively and they value every word that comes from your mouth.
- When a person loves you they become a good listener to what you have to say.
- Nothing is more annoying than your partner not listening to what you say.

- 17. Your partner makes an effort to dress up for you.
- When a woman loves her husband, she wears make up and she dresses up for him.
- She nurtures his testosterone.
- Ibn Abaas used to dress up for his wife.
- When they asked him why he dressed up for his wife.
- He replied that women have the same rights over you as you have over them
- He quoted 2:228

And they (women) have rights (over their husbands as regards living expenses, etc.) similar (to those of their husbands) over them (as regards obedience and respect, etc.) to what is reasonable, but men have a degree (of responsibility) over them. And Allāh is All-Mighty, All-Wise. (Al-Baqarah 2:228)

- 18. They take you out on dates.
- They take you out with spontaneity. They always try their best to make you feel special.

- 19. The communication flows smoothly between you because you both strive for compatibility.
- The secret to every successful relationship is communication.
- Even during love making.
- A breakdown in communication is a disaster for a relationship.

- 20. You fear that you will lose the person.
- That he or she may die.
- If you don't love a person you will say "happy riddance".

- 21. You just can't let go.
- Even if you have quarrels you can't walk away.
- Even if you have no children to hold you together.
- Some people stay together just for the kids.
- When the love is diluted and tainted it's easy to let go.
- When you can't let go, that is true love.

- 22. They find it easy to forgive, overlook and forget.
- The Prophet was able to forgive, overlook and forget the mistakes of the companions. 
- Even though they disobeyed him.
- The Prophet found it easy to forgive, overlook and forget because he loved his companions.

And by the Mercy of Allah, you dealt with them gently. And had you been severe and harsh­hearted, they would have broken away from about you; so pass over (their faults), and ask (Allah's) Forgiveness for them; and consult them in the affairs. Then when you have taken a decision, put your trust in Allah, certainly, Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him). (Aali Imran 3:159)


- 23. They don't use the past to torture you because true love doesn't hurt.
- And use the past to hurt your feelings.



-- THE 7 PRINCIPLES OF LOVE --

- 1. Money can't buy true love.
- Where did we get that principle from?
- The Quran: 8:63
- The Aws and the Khazraj were killing each other before the Prophet went to Madinah.

And He has united their (i.e. believers') hearts. If you had spent all that is in the earth, you could not have united their hearts, but Allah has united them. Certainly He is All-Mighty, All-Wise. (Al-Anfal 8:63)

- 2. Love knows no colour.
- So expect to see people from different races getting married.
- Shaikh was in Liverpool, UK. He saw so many half cast kids there.

- 3. Love is restricted by your Creed.
- Your creed controls who you love.
- Your Creed dictates to you who you are allowed to love.
- Allah said: 3:118 / 60:1

O you who believe! Take not as (your) Bitanah (advisors, consultants, protectors, helpers, friends, etc.) those outside your religion (pagans, Jews, Christians, and hypocrites) since they will not fail to do their best to corrupt you. They desire to harm you severely. Hatred has already appeared from their mouths, but what their breasts conceal is far worse. Indeed We have made plain to you the Ayat (proofs, evidences, verses) if you understand. (Aali Imran 3:118)

O you who believe! Take not My enemies and your enemies (i.e. disbelievers and polytheists, etc.) as friends, showing affection towards them, while they have disbelieved in what has come to you of the truth (i.e. Islamic Monotheism, this Qur'an, and Muhammad SAW), and have driven out the Messenger (Muhammad SAW) and yourselves (from your homeland) because you believe in Allah your Lord! If you have come forth to strive in My Cause and to seek My Good Pleasure, (then take not these disbelievers and polytheists, etc., as your friends). You show friendship to them in secret, while I am All-Aware of what you conceal and what you reveal. And whosoever of you (Muslims) does that, then indeed he has gone (far) astray, (away) from the Straight Path. (Al-Mumtahinah 60:1)


- 4. Only Allah can put love in our hearts for each other.
- Allah has 99 Names and Attributes.
- One of Allah's Names: Al Wadood. The Loving, the Kind One, The Giver of Love.
- When you love Allah, it is easy to love each other.
- Allah said: 8:63

And (as for the believers) hath attuned their hearts. If thou hadst spent all that is in the earth thou couldst not have attuned their hearts, but Allah hath attuned them. Lo! He is Mighty, Wise. (Al-Anfal 8:63) [Pickthall]

- 5. Those who love the Creator love the creation.

- 6. A true believer loves what Allah Loves and hates what Allah Hates.
- He practices Al Walaa' wal Baraa'

- 7. Love can die if it is not nurtured, the same way a plant can die if it is not cared for.
- If you stop caring for your wife, she is going to stop loving you.