Wednesday, April 30, 2014

{Notes & Mp3 Audio} THE 17 NATURAL INSTINCTS OF MANKIND

 بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

THE 17 NATURAL INSTINCTS OF MANKIND


BY SHAIKH ABDULLAH AL FAISAL

NOTES TAKEN BY @AT16 & @ACCEPTRUTH

HADITH HUJJAH @AT3 & @ACCEPTRUTH                                                                            

QURAN HUJJAH @AT3

EDITED & FORMATTED BY ABU HAFIZA

WHAT IS AL FITRA?

Al fitra means those inborn natural instincts given to man by Allah (SWT), to enable him to carry out his role as Allah's Khalifa properly and effectively on earth.

THE THREE CATEGORIES OF MAN IN REGARDS TO AL FITRA

Mankind is divided up in three categories in regards to our natural instincts.

We have two extremes and the middle path.

1) PEOPLE WHO ARE BEING CONTROL BY THEIR NATURAL INSTINCT

The first categories are those people who are being controlled by their natural instincts.

They aren't able to control their natural instincts, which dictate to them.

They cannot control their feelings.

They are beneath the level of the cattle.

Allah (SWT) said in the Qur'an surah Al Furqaan verse 42 to 44

He would have nearly misled us from our āliha (gods), had it not been that we were patient and constant in their worship!" And they will know when they see the torment, who it is that is most astray from the (Right) Path! Have you (O Muhammad SAW) seen him who has taken as his ilāh (god) his own desire? Would you then be a Wakīl (a disposer of his affairs or a watcher) over him? Or do you think that most of them hear or understand? They are only like cattle; nay, they are even farther astray from the Path. (i.e. even worst than cattle).

(Al-Furqan 25:42-44)

They cannot say "no" to their desires of the pleasures of the flesh.

They are very promiscuous because they worship their evil and corrupted desires.

They can't control their natural instincts, it controls them.

Allah (SWT) said in the Qur'an surah At Tin verse 4 to 6

Verily, We created man of the best stature (mould),Then We reduced him to the lowest of the low, Save those who believe (in Islāmic Monotheism) and do righteous deeds, then they shall have a reward without end (Paradise).

(At-Tin 95:4-6)

Man is addicted to his corrupted and evil desires.

These are the first category of people in regards to our natural instincts.

2) THOSE WHO TRY TO IGNORE OR SUPPRESS OUR NATURAL INSTINCTS

Like the catholic priests.

He is the exact opposite of the first category.

The first category is like the gigolo.

He can't suppress his natural instincts.

The second category is the exact opposite of that.

But the Monasticism which they invented for themselves (Al-Hadid 57:27)

Allah (SWT) said in the Qur'an surah Al Hadid verse 27

But the Monasticism which they invented for themselves, We did not prescribe for them, but (they sought it) only to please Allah therewith, but that they did not observe it with the right observance. So We gave those among them who believed, their (due) reward, but many of them are Fasiqun (rebellious, disobedient to Allah).

(Al-Hadid 57:27)

Muslims practice a limited type of monasticism during Ramadan, we stay away from our wives during the day.

The catholic church went to the extreme.

They start abusing boys.

They abstain from women and abuse boys.

They fall into this because they practice a bid'ah

They are practicing a concoction of human folly.

3) THE MUSLIMS

We acknowledge our natural instincts.

We are between the priest and the gigolo.

We are in the middle path.

We do not go to the extreme.

We were made the balanced nation By Allah (SWT).

Allah (SWT) said in the Qur'an surah Al Baqarah verse 143

Thus We have made you [true Muslims - real believers of Islamic Monotheism, true followers of Prophet Muhammad and his Sunnah (legal ways)], a Wasat (just) (and the best) nation, that you be witnesses over mankind and the Messenger (Muhammad) be a witness over you.

(Al-Baqarah 2:143)

Because we are a balance' nation we don't practice like the gigolo or the priest.

We are called the just nation.

We do not practice promiscuity like the gigolo or celibacy like the priest.

Allah (SWT) said in the Quran surah Baqarah verse 143

And thus we have made you a just community that you will be witnesses over the people and the Messenger will be a witness over you.

(Al-Baqarah 2:143) Sahih International

Wasat means you are in the middle.

You are in the middle of the materialist and the spiritualist.

You pay attention to both.

"I marry women. Whoever turns away from my Sunnah is not of me.”

(Trans Sahih al Bukhari (Arabic/English) Vol 7 Book 67 hadith 5063. Sahih-Muslim, English translation Vol 2 pg 703 No.3236)

This proves that marriage is only between a man and a woman.

Abu Sa’eed al-Khudri (RA), who said that the Prophet (SAW) said: “They will follow the ways of those who came before them, hand span by hand span, cubit by cubit, until even if they entered a lizard’s hole they will follow them.” We said: “O Messenger of Allah, (do you mean) the Jews and Christians?” He said: “Who else?”

[Al-Bukhari (3456) and Muslim (2669)]

Some of you suffer from inferiority complex.

You will follow them in their gay marriages.

They have even opened a gay masjid in France.

The man who is opening the masjid is suffering from aids.

He won't live to see its opening.

Muslims indulge in our natural instincts according to Quran and sunnah.

Why is it that we indulge in our natural instincts?

Why don't we suppress it like the catholic priests?

Because Allah (SWT) told us to have fun.

Allah (SWT) said in the Quran surah Al Qasas verse 77

But seek, with that (wealth) which Allah has bestowed on you, the home of the Hereafter, and forget not your portion of legal enjoyment in this world, and do good as Allah has been good to you, and seek not mischief in the land. Verily, Allah likes not the Mufsidun (those who commit great crimes and sins, oppressors, tyrants, mischief-makers, corrupts).

(Al-Qasas 28:77)

Allah (SWT) says in this ayat to have fun, in the halaal way.

This is why we have sex and are not shy about it.

What the catholic priest are doing is nothing but a cursed innovation.

:: WHAT ARE THE 17 NATURAL INSTINCTS OF MANKIND? ::

1) TO LOVE LIFE AND FEAR DEATH

This is called the survival instinct,

Allah (SWT) gave this instinct so that we do not commit suicide.

Any society where suicide is rife that society is abnormal.

Something is wrong with that society.

Christians and Jews love to quote sheikh Google and say Europeans are the happiest people.

By Google it is said that these places are the most dangerous and the top 10 countries for suicide are kuffar countries Canada, USA and even India are there.
So when they quote shaikh Google, throw it back in their faces.

Russia, Japan, all these are on the list.

Narrated Abu Huraira-: The prophet pbuh said, "He who commits suicide by throttling shall keep on throttling himself in the Hell Fire (forever) and he who commits suicide by stabbing himself shall keep on stabbing himself in the Hell-Fire."

(Bukhari: Vol 2 Book 23 hadith 446 & Bukhari #23, Hadith #446)

The million dollar question: If a Muslim kills himself is he a kaffir?

The shaikhs said it is only a khawarji who say this.

What the Muslim did was wrong, but he is not a kaffir.

When they quote the hadith they have *forever* in brackets.

They have to do this because all will not remain in the hellfire forever.

Allah (SWT) said Jews love life more than everybody else.

Jews don't want to die because they know they will be in the hellfire.

Allah (SWT) said in the Quran surah Al Baqarah verse 95 to 96

Say to (them) : "If the home of the Hereafter with Allah is indeed for you specially and not for others, of mankind, then long for death if you are truthful." But they will never long for it because of what their hands have sent before them (i.e. what they have done). And Allah is All-Aware of the Zelman (polytheists and wrong-doers). And verily, you will find them (the Jews) the greediest of mankind for life and (even greedier) than those who - ascribe partners to Allah (and do not believe in Resurrection - Magians, pagans, and idolaters, etc.). Everyone of them wishes that he could be given a life of a thousand years. But the grant of such life will not save him even a little from (due) punishment. And Allah is All-Seer of what they do.

(Al-Baqarah 2:95-96)

They don't want stem cell research to go on in the USA because they don't want people to live for 1000 years.

They will have to support these people.

Ibn Abbas (RA) narrated the Messenger of Allah (SAW) said: "Verily the most painful punishment on the Day of Judgment are those who kill the prophets or people murdered by the prophet or kill one of his parents, and making statues and knowledgeable people who do not benefit from his knowledge."

[Related by Bayhaqi in 'Shu'ab al-Iman' (10/288 No. 7504]

Narrated By Abdullah (bin Masud): On the day of Badr, Al-Miqdad said, "O Allah's Apostle! We do not say to you as the children of Israel said to Moses, 'Go you and your Lord and fight you two; we are sitting here, (5.24) but (we say). "Proceed, and we are with you." That seemed to delight Allah's Apostle greatly.

[Sahih Bukhari, Vol 6, Book 60, Hadith #133]

This hadith proves the Jews are cowards.

2) TO ACCEPT MONOTHEISM OVER POLYTHEISM

Because this is your natural instinct to accept monotheism.

Even the pharaoh took the Shahadah.

He had this instinct of monotheism over polytheism.

Allah (SWT) said in the Qur'an in surah An Naml verse 14

And they belied them (those Ayat) wrongfully and arrogantly, though their ownselves were convinced thereof [i.e. those (Ayat) are from Allah, and Musa (Moses) is the Messenger of Allah in truth, but they disliked to obey Musa (Moses), and hated to believe in his Message of Monotheism]. So see what was the end of the Mufsidun (disbelievers, disobedient to Allah, evil-doers, liars.).

(An-Naml 27:14)

Allah (SWT) said in the Quran that pharaoh believed in his heart the message of Musa (AS).

There are no atheists in the world. They are all liars.

This ayat proves that this is a natural instinct for all.

Because the pharaoh believed, he took his Shahada.

Allah (SWT) said in the Quran surah Yunus verse 90 to 92

And We took the Children of Israel across the sea, and Fir'aun (Pharaoh) with his hosts followed them in oppression and enmity, till when drowning overtook him, he said: "I believe that La ilaha illa (Huwa) : (none has the right to be worshipped but) He," in Whom the Children of Israel believe, and I am one of the Muslims (those who submit to Allah's Will)." Now (you believe) while you refused to believe before and you were one of the Mufsidun (evil-doers, corrupts, etc.). So this day We shall deliver your (dead) body (out from the sea) that you may be a sign to those who come after you! And verily, many among mankind are heedless of Our Ayat (proofs, evidences, verses, lessons, signs , revelations, etc.).

(Yunus 10:90-92)

But Allah (SWT) threw his shahadah back in his face like a dirty rag.

Allah (SWT) did not accept his shahadah; it as too little too late.

Pharaoh said he was a Muslim.

He used the word Muslim.

Allah (SWT) asked him if now he believed.

When he refused to believe before.

His body was on the seafloor for 3000 years.

Then they discovered his body...intact!

How could a kaffir know this and not believe in the Quran before his death.

You have to be the devil himself to read this prediction and not believe.

His body was not eaten by the fish.

It was preserved untouched by fish and sea water.

So it is your natural instinct to believe in monotheism, that there is one Allah (SWT).

Abu Huraira (RA) reported that Allah’s Messenger said, “Every child is born on the religion (of Islam). Then his parents make him a Jew, a Christian or a polytheist.” Someone said, “O Messenger of Allah, (what about) those who die before (their parents convert them)?” He said, “Allah knows best what they would have done (if they had survived).”

[Al-Bukhari (6599) Bukhari: 2 Book 23 hadith 440 and Muslim (2658]

Allah (SWT) said in the Quran surah A'raf verse 172 & 173

And (remember) when your Lord brought forth from the Children of Adam, from their loins, their seed (or from Adam's loin his offspring) and made them testify as to themselves (saying) : "Am I not your Lord?" They said: "Yes! We testify," lest you should say on the Day of Resurrection: "Verily, we have been unaware of this."

(Al-A'raf 7:172)

Or lest you should say: "It was only our fathers afortime who took others as partners in worship along with Allah, and we were (merely their) descendants after them; will You then destroy us because of the deeds of men who practised Al-Batil (i.e. polytheism and committing crimes and sins, invoking and worshipping others besides Allah)?" (Tafsir At-Tabari).

(Al-A'raf 7:173)

Allah (SWT) made us testify so that on judgement day you do not have the excuse of ignorance.

You cannot blame your parents.

It is your natural instinct to worship one Allah.

Allah (SWT) said in the Quran surah Ar Rum verse 30

So set you (O Muhammad SAW) your face towards the religion of pure Islamic Monotheism Hanifa (worship none but Allah Alone) Allah's Fitrah (i.e. Allah's Islamic Monotheism), with which He has created mankind. No change let there be in Khalq­illah (i.e. the Religion of Allah Islamic Monotheism), that is the straight religion, but most of men know not. [Tafsir At­ Tabari, Vol 21, Page 41]

(Ar-Rum 30:30)

Allah (SWT) created you with this natural instinct.

Some believe that if a man worships a false deity Allah (SWT) will forgive him because he did not know better.

Narrated from Anas (RA) that a man said: “O Messenger of Allah, where is my father?” He said: “In Hell.” When he turned away he called him back and said: “My father and your father are in Hell.”

[Sahih Muslim Book 1 Chapter 86 Hadith 398]

Even though the prophet's father died before he was born, he is still in the hellfire.

This hadith is the knockout punch for those who say differently.

For those who say they give the person the excuse of ignorance because they did not know better.

Even the animals worship Allah (SWT) alone.

Allah (SWT) said in the Quran surah As Saff verse 1

Whatsoever is in the heavens and whatsoever is on the earth glorifies Allah. And He is the All-Mighty, the All-Wise.

(As-Saff 61:1)

When prophet Sulaiman (AS) gathered his army and the bird was late, the bird complained to Sulaiman (AS) that he found people worshipping the sun other than Allah (SWT).

Allah (SWT) said in the Quran surah An Naml verse 23 to 24.

"I found a woman ruling over them, and she has been given all things that could be possessed by any ruler of the earth, and she has a great throne."I found her and her people worshipping the sun instead of Allah, and Shaitan (Satan) has made their deeds fair-seeming to them, and has barred them from (Allah's) Way, so they have no guidance,"

(An-Naml 27:23-24)

The bird knew that only Allah (SWT) alone deserves to be worshiped, why don't YOU man know this.

How come you are worshiping elephants and cows in India they worship the penis.

They do not worship Allah (SWT).

In India some worship the graves.

Only Muslims worship Allah (SWT).

Allah (SWT) said in the Quran surah Fatir verse 14

If you invoke (or call upon) them, they hear not your call, and if (in case) they were to hear, they could not grant it (your request) to you. And on the Day of Resurrection, they will disown your worshipping them. And none can inform you (O Muhammad SAW) like Him Who is the All Knower (of each and everything)

(Fatir 35:14)

If a bird knows that Allah (SWT) alone deserves to be worship why doesn't the beraivli know this?

In the above mentioned ayat, Allah (SWT) makes takfir on the beraivlis calling them grave worshipers.

3) THE ABILITY TO DIFFERENTIATE BETWEEN GOOD AND EVIL

To distinguish between good and evil.

You don't have to be a Muslim to know not to steal.

In every country they lock up thieves.

Even in darul harb.

In every country they lock up rapists and murderers.

You don't have to be a Muslim to know that rape is wrong.

Allah (SWT) said in the Quran surah Ash Shams verse 7 to 8

And by Nafs (Adam or a person or a soul, etc.), and Him Who perfected him in proportion; Then He showed him what is wrong for him and what is right for him; 

(Ash-Shams 91:7-8)

Allah (SWT) said in the Quran surah Al Balad verse 8 to 10

Have We not made for him a pair of eyes? And a tongue and a pair of lips? And shown him the two ways (good and evil)?

(Al-Balad 90:8-10)

There are two highways two motorways.

People don't want the hard road.

People don't want the steep road.

The flat road is easy.

It is easier not to make fajr and not to fast.

It is easy to have girlfriends.

No responsibility.

With a wife you have responsibilities.

4) TO LOVE YOUR COUNTRY, YOUR TRIBE OR YOUR RACE

The shaitan uses this natural instinct to make us loyal even though the country race and tribe is wrong.

Love for these things is a virus.

Shaiytan used this to destroy the Jews.

If a Jew knows that Muhammad (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) is the messenger of Allah (SWT) why does he reject?

It is because of racism, because of asabiya they go to the hellfire.

Allah (SWT) said in the Quran surah Al Baraqah verse 146

Those to whom We gave the Scripture (Jews and Christians) recognise him (Muhammad or the Ka'bah at Makkah) as they recognise their sons. But verily, a party of them conceal the truth while they know it - [i.e. the qualities of Muhammad which are written in the Taurat (Torah) and the Injeel (Gospel)]

(Al-Baqarah 2:146)

They reject all in the name of racism.

They prefer hellfire over paradise over asabiya.

Muhammad (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) was a gentile to them so they will never follow him.

The shaitan plays on these natural instincts.

He manipulates you with these viruses.

He was able to lead Adam (AS) astray using these natural instincts.

Allah (SWT) said in the Quran surah TA HA verse 120

Then Shaitan (Satan) whispered to him, saying : "O Adam! Shall I lead you to the Tree of Eternity and to a kingdom that will never waste away?"

(Ta-Ha 20:120)

He gave Adam (AS) an offer he could not refuse.

Too beautiful to refuse.

Allah (SWT) said in the Quran surah Al Hujurat verse 13

O mankind! We have created you from a male and a female, and made you into nations and tribes, that you may know one another. Verily, the most honourable of you with Allah is that (believer) who has At-Taqwa [i.e. one of the Muttaqun (pious - see V.2:2). Verily, Allah is All-Knowing, All-Aware.

(Al-Hujurat 49:13)

Allah (SWT) revealed an ayat to counteract the waswas of the shaitan,

Allah (SWT) knew the shaiytan would use your natural instincts against you.

The clearer the skin, the more beautiful you are

This exists in black and Indian community.

White people adore the black people more than the black people.

Blacks try to lighten their skin where whites try to get darker.

Black people hate the black skin because man is ungrateful to his Lord.

Allah (SWT) said in the Quran surah Al Adiyat verse 6

Verily! Man (disbeliever) is ungrateful to his Lord; And to that fact he bears witness (by his deeds); And verily, he is violent in the love of wealth

(Al-'Adiyat 100:6)

Narrated Jubair ibn Mut’im: The Messenger of Allah (SAW), said: "He is not one us who calls for `Asabiyah, (nationalism/tribalism) or who fights for `Asabiyah or who dies for `Asabiyah."
[Sunan Abu Dawud (Vol. 2, pg. 753) No. 5121]

Abu Hurairah narrated that the Messenger of Allah (saw) said: “One who fights under the banner of a people who are blind to the cause for which they are fighting, (i.e. do not know whether their cause is just or unjust) who get flared up with Asabya, calls people to fight for their Asabiya. And supports his kith and kin (i.e. fights not for the cause of Allah but for the sake of his asabiyya) if he is killed (in this fight) he dies as one belonging to the days of Jahiliyiah (the pre-Islamic days of ignorance).

(Sahih Muslim (English Trans.) Vol. 3 pg.1030

To love your country is a part of Imaan.

(Classified fabricated by Saghaani)

We have come back from the minor jihad to the major one" someone asked: "What is the major Jihad O Messenger of Allah?" he replied: "Jihad of the nafs,"

(This report, collected by Bayhaqi is fabricated as mentioned in Mannaar as-Subl of Ibn Qayyim al-Jawziyyah)

5) TO LOVE POWER, HONOUR AND PRESTIGE

The shaitan uses this to turn people in to tyrants e.g. the pharaoh.

He rebelled against the message and said he himself was Allah (SWT).

He even used Musa’s (AS) speech impediment against him.

Allah (SWT) said in the Quran surah An Nazi'at verse 20-24

Then [Musa (Moses)] showed him the great sign (miracles). But [Fir'aun (Pharaoh)] belied and disobeyed; Then he turned his back, striving hard (against Allah).Then he gathered his people and cried aloud Saying: "I am your lord, most high",

(An-Nazi'at 79:20-24)

He said Musa (AS) could hardly speak.

He used this as an argument against Musa (AS).

In the above mentioned ayat the Pharaoh claimed to be the most high, something the shaiytan never claimed.

The shaiytan laughed at him and said he fell into his web.

Allah (SWT) said in the Quran surah Az Zukhruf verse 52

Am I not better than this one [Musa (Moses)], who is Mahin [has no honour nor any respect, and is weak and despicable] and can scarcely express himself clearly?

(Az-Zukhruf 43:52)

Power got to pharaoh’s head.

He didn't want to lose his position.

The Messenger of Allah (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said, “Allah the Almighty said, ‘Pride is My cloak and greatness is My robe, and he who competes with Me in respect of either of them, I shall cast into the Hell Fire.’”

[Sunan Abu Dawud - Classed as Sahih by Shaykh al-Albaani]

Narrated By Abu Huraira: I heard Allah's Apostle saying, "Allah will hold the whole earth, and roll all the heavens up in His Right Hand, and then He will say, 'I am the King; where are the kings of the earth?'"

[Al-Bukhari (7382) Bukhari: Vol: 6 Book 60 hadith 336 and Muslim (2787)]

6 - THE INSTINCT OF BEING ATTRACTED TO THE OPPOSITE SEX

You have to be attracted to the opposite gender.

Allah (SWT) said in the Qur'an surah Ar Rum verse 21

And among His Signs is this, that He created for you wives from among yourselves, that you may find repose in them, and He has put between you affection and mercy. Verily, in that are indeed signs for a people who reflect.

(Ar-Rum 30:21)

"I marry women. Whoever turns away from my Sunnah is not of me.”

(Trans Sahih al Bukhari (Arabic/English) Vol 7 Book 67 hadith 5063. Sahih-Muslim, English translation Vol 2 pg 703 No.3236)

When Abu Bakr Siddiq (RA) was a caliph, they discussed homosexuality, as when Ali (RA) was Caliph. Ibn Abbas (RA) said you should topple wall on top of them.

Why would he say to burn their bodies?  You burn the bodies of Muslim.

The killing of homosexuals is done in the Islamic state.

Why would he say to burn their bodies? You cant burn the bodies of Muslims.

There is a difference of opinion concerning the punishment for the one who commits sodomy. The following are the opinions that were mentioned by Imam Ash-Shawkani in "Nayl Al-Awtar" , Vol. 7/p122-124.

1) That he is killed with the sword, then burnt. This is narrated from Abu Bakr and 'Ali Ibn Abi Talib.

2) That a wall should be collapsed upon him. This was the opinion of 'Umar and 'Uthman.

3) That he should be thrown from the highest building in the city, then that should be followed up with him being pelted with rocks. This was the opinion of Ibn 'Abbas.

4) That he is stoned. This is narrated by Al-Bayhaqi from 'Ali Ibn Abi Talib, Ash-Sha'bi, Az-Zuhri, Malik, Ahmad, Is'haq, and Ash-Shafi'i.

5) That they are burned. This was narrated by Al-Bayhaqi, that Abu Bakr gathered the Sahabah and 'Ali mentioned this, and the Sahabah agreed upon it. It was also mentioned by Al-Munthiri that it was done by Abu Bakr, 'Ali, 'Abdullah Ibn Az-Zubayr, and Hisham Ibn 'Abdil-Malik.

6) That he is stoned, then burnt with fire. This is narrated from the Sahabah agreeing upon it in the time of Abu Bakr.

7) That the punishment is the same as Zina, in that if he is a virgin, he is whipped, and if he is not, then he is stoned.

Four Caliphs burned the bodies of homosexuals.

That there is no prescribed punishment, rather it is left up to the Imam to perform Ta'zir, and this was narrated from Abu Hanifah, and one narration from Ash-Shafi'i, and others.

Abu Bakr (RA), Ali (RA), Abdullah Ibn Zubayr (RA) and Hisham ibn Abdul Malik (RA).

Ash-Shawkani refutes the opinion of the punishment being the same as Zina, as well as the opinion that there is only Ta'zir, and supports the opinion that he is killed, but does not appear to specify which way of killing is the strongest.

Abu Hanifa (RA) was lenient with homosexuals. His opinion should not be taken seriously because it went against the Ijmah of the Sahabas

Imam Shawkani (RA) refused the punishment of homosexuality as being same as Zinah
he didnt accept the opinion of Abu Hanifa that the homosexual is given Ta'zir (like 10 lashes etc).

The Hanbali Madhab is that they should be killed.

It was also the Madhab of Imam Malik, as well as Ahmad Ibn Hanbal, and Imam Shafi

According to Shariah law, you are not allowed to kill a lesbian.

Why? Because lesbian sex is fake and is not real.

Some qiyas is wrong.

Lesbians are not killed, but homosexuals are killed.

7TH: THE INSTINCT OF WANTING TO BE LOVED AND ACCEPTED BY OTHERS

Whenever a child is not shown any love, the child becomes emotionally insecure and it is easy for someone to exploit that child, because its called "damaged goods"

- rejection is the worst damage you can do to a child so that child is easy to exploit, there is a vacuum in the child to be filled - the need to be loved and accepted by others.

Rejection is the worst damage that can be done to a child. If you are rejected you are damaged for life, and not everyone can cope with rejection even for an adult.

not everyone can cope with rejection.

A man can cope with rejection more than a woman.

If you ask a woman if she would propose to a man, she would say *hell no*

she cannot cope with rejection.

A girl child can't cope if her father rejects her.

A man can get over rejection in five minutes, it takes a woman five years.

The female ego can't cope with rejection, this is why she will not propose.

Some men cannot cope also. some commit suicide.

The Prophet(saw) said: “When Allah loves a servant, He calls Gabriel and says, ‘Verily I love so and so; you should also love him’, and Gabriel begins to love him. Then he(Gabriel) makes an announcement in the heaven saying, ‘Allah loves so and so, you should also love him’, and then the inhabitants of the heavens (the angels) also begin to love him and then there conferred honour upon him in the earth; and whenever Allah dislikes a servant of His, HE calls Gabriel and says, ‘I dislike so and so you should also dislike him’, and then Gabriel also dislikes him and then makes an announcement amongst the inhabitants of heaven, ‘Verily ALLAH dislike so and so, so you should dislike him’, and thus they also dislike him. Then he becomes the object of wrath of the earth also”.

(Sahih Muslim (English translation) Vol. 4 pg1385 No.6373)

The Prophet(saw) said: “When Allah loves a servant, He calls Gabriel and says, ‘Verily I love so and so; you should also love him’, and Gabriel begins to love him. Then he(Gabriel) makes an announcement in the heaven saying, ‘Allah loves so and so, you should also love him’, and then the inhabitants of the heavens (the angels) also begin to love him and then there conferred honour upon him in the earth; and whenever Allah dislikes a servant of His, HE calls Gabriel and says, ‘I dislike so and so you should also dislike him’, and then Gabriel also dislikes him and then makes an announcement amongst the inhabitants of heaven, ‘Verily ALLAH dislike so and so, so you should dislike him’, and thus they also dislike him. Then he becomes the object of wrath of the earth also”.

(Sahih Muslim (English translation) Vol. 4 pg1385 No.6373)

THE 6 TYPES OF LOVE

1) - EMOTIONAL LOVE

This is the love you have for your parents and siblings.

Allah (SWT) said in the Qu'ran surah Al Qasis verse 56

Verily! You (O Muhammad SAW) guide not whom you like, but Allah guides whom He wills. And He knows best those who are the guided.

(Al-Qasas 28:56)

If you love your parents and they are not Muslims, you did not do wrong as the prophet loved his uncle, Abu Talib even though he was a kafir.

2) - PHYSICAL LOVES

This is when you are attracted to your spouse/partner. This is called chemistry.

You are not allowed to marry until you are absolutely sure about the chemistry.

The prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) always told his sahabahs to go and see the girl before proposing, to ensure there was chemistry.

Allah (SWT) said in the Qur'an surah An Nisa verse 3

And if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with the orphan­ girls, then marry (other) women of your choice, two or three, or four but if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one or (the captives and the slaves) that your right hands possess. That is nearer to prevent you from doing injustice.

(An-Nisa 4:3)

From Abu Hurayrah: “I was with the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) when a man came and told him that he had married a woman of the Ansar. The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said to him, ‘Have you seen her?’ He said, ‘No.’ He said, ‘Go and look at her, for there is something in the eyes of the Ansar.”

(Reported by Muslim, no. 1424; and by al-Daaraqutni, 3/253 (34))

Mughirah ibn Shu’bah (RA) said that he proposed to a woman. So, the Prophet (SAW) said to him, “Look at her. That would strengthen your love for one another”.

[Tirmidhi 1089, Ahmed 18160, Nisai 3237, Ibn e Majah 1865]

In the above hadith, the prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) was ensuring that the sahabahs had chemistry, which is why he instructed them to go see the women face to face.

Chemistry means the physical attraction.

Faskh is annulment, which is when you divorce your husband because of his evil character.

Khula is when you divorce your husband because there is no chemistry.

With the khula you have to return the dowry. With faskh you get the dowry back.

Jamilah (sister of ‘Abdullah ibn Ubayy), came to the Prophet (SAW) and said: “O Messenger of Allah (SAW), I have nothing against Thabit ibn Qays as regards his religion or his behavior, but I hate to commit any act of kufr when I am a Muslim. The Prophet (SAW) said: “Will you give his garden back to him?” - her mahr had been a garden. She said, “Yes.” So the Messenger of Allah (SAW) sent word to him: “Take back your garden, and give her one pronouncement of divorce.” 3 3.

{Fath al-Bari, 9/395, Kitab al-talaq, bab al-khul'}
  
The above mentioned hadith means that the woman loved her husband spiritually, but did not love him physically.

This is why the prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) told the husband to divorce his wife with one pronouncement. So the prophet carried out a khula in the above hadith.

Because the wife did not love her husband physically.

4) - DIVINE LOVES

Divine love is the love that Allah (SWT) has for His righteous servants.

Allah (SWT) said in the Qur'an surah At Tawbah verse 4

Surely Allah loves Al- Mattaqun (the pious - see V.2:2).

(At-Tawbah 9:4)

5) UNCONDITIONAL LOVES

It’s to say to a person "I don’t care if you are a Muslim, Christian, atheist, I love you because you are my child". This type of love is Haraam.

You are only allowed to love Allah SWT, His messengers, and sahabas unconditionally.

We don’t believe in unconditional love.

But not an ordinary Muslim.

We love you if you love Allah (SWT) and hate you if you hate Allah (SWT).

This type of love #5 is in conflict with Al wala wal Bara; because of that unconditional love is Haraam love.

You (O Muhammad SAW) will not find any people who believe in Allah and the Last Day, making friendship with those who oppose Allah and His Messenger (Muhammad SAW ), even though they were their fathers, or their sons, or their brothers, or their kindred (people). For such He has written Faith in their hearts, and strengthened them with Ruh (proofs, light and true guidance) from Himself. And We will admit them to Gardens (Paradise) under which rivers flow, to dwell therein (forever). Allah is pleased with them, and they with Him. They are the Party of Allah. Verily, it is the Party of Allah that will be the successful.

(Al-Mujadilah 58:22)

You put a condition on your love.

6) TAINTED LOVES

When the love is mixed with something which is not pure.

So if a woman loves her husband but at the same time she has love for another man, she gave her husband tainted love.

If you love your husband but also love a boyfriend, its an example of tainted love.

The virgins of paradise, they love they give to their husband is pure not tainted.

The women who live in Darul al Harb, they have a husband and a lover.

Allah (SWT) said in the Qur'an surah Ar Rahman verse 56.

Wherein both will be those (maidens) restraining their glances upon their husbands, whom no man or jinn yatmithhunna (has opened their hymens with sexual intercourse) before them.

(Ar-Rahman 55:56)

80% of women who live in darul al harb, they cheat.

The virgins of paradise don’t even look at another man.

If you have a wife in the dunya, she doesn't look at another man, she doesn't chat up another man, her love is pure and it is not tainted.

So you should keep that wife, don’t divorce her.

Polygamy is halal, so don't compare tainted love with polygamy.

Allah (SWT) is All wise.

If you understand Tawheed asma wa sifat, you will accept polygamy gracefully.

But if you have disease of hypocrisy, you will never accept polygamy gracefully.

In Afghanistan, since 1979 they haven’t seen one day of peace for 35 years.

Imagine how many men who died in that country, how can you frown on polygamy.

Iraq has not seen peace as well.

One of the signs of the last days is that for every man will be 50 women because of killing will be rife.

Narrated Anas: I will narrate to you a Hadith and none other than I will tell you about after it. I heard Allah's Messenger () saying: From among the portents of the Hour are (the following): 4. Women will increase in number and men will decrease in number so much so that fifty women will be looked after by one man

[Sahih al-Bukhari Book 3, Hadith 23]

8) THE INSTINCT TO IMMITATE ONES PARENTS

Shaitan manipulates this instinct to the extent where you become loyal to a fault.

Some people when they are invited to Tawheed, they want to practice what their parents practiced, even if their parents were pagans.

Allah said in the Qur'an surah Al Baqarah verse 170

When it is said to them: "Follow what Allah has sent down." They say: "Nay! We shall follow what we found our fathers following." (Would they do that!) Even though their fathers did not understand anything nor were they guided?

(Al-Baqarah 2:170)

People remain Barelvis, Shias, etc because they are loyal to their parents.

The Barelvis of India, Pakistan and Bangladesh.

You’re not allowed to follow parents, you should follow Quran and Sunnah.

Some parents are Shias, they even cut their children on 10th of Muharram.

Some parents are grave worshippers.

Allah (SWT) said in the Qur'an surah Luqman verse 14 to 15

And We have enjoined on man (to be dutiful and good) to his parents. His mother bore him in weakness and hardship upon weakness and hardship, and his weaning is in two years give thanks to Me and to your parents, unto Me is the final destination. But if they (both) strive with you to make you join in worship with Me others that of which you have no knowledge, then obey them not, but behave with them in the world kindly, and follow the path of him who turns to Me in repentance and in obedience. Then to Me will be your return, and I shall tell you what you used to do.

(Luqman 31:14-15)

Do not allow shaitan to manipulate you, he knows its your natural instinct to follow parents, he uses that to make you die as kafir.

You should be dutiful to your parents, but do not obey them unconditionally.

The first word revealed to the prophet (Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) was Iqra (read) so we do things by the book.

#9 THE INSTINCT TO LOVE CHILDREN

Allah (SWT) gave us this instinct so the human race would not become instinct you are not a woman unless you give birth.

Allah (SWT) said in the Qur'an surah Al Imran verse 14

Beautified for men is the love of things they covet; women, children, much of gold and silver (wealth), branded beautiful horses, cattle and well-tilled land. This is the pleasure of the present world's life; but Allah has the excellent return (Paradise with flowing rivers, etc.) with Him.

(Aali Imran 3:14)

The four special women of paradise: 1- Asia the wife of the Pharaoh, Maryam mother of Jesus (AS), Khadija (RAA) wife of Muhammad (Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam), Fatima the daughter of Muhammad (Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam).

They all gave birth.

In Jamaica, if you don't give birth they call them mule.

Allah (SWT) gave you your womb for a purpose.

When you see Dajjal women in America who live all their lives on tablets for birth control, they are not real women.

Marry women who are loving and affectionate to their husbands, what have you done for the Ummah?

Did you increase the Ummah?

Even when you have a child and he died before puberty, he can intercede for you.

The Prophet said: “Marry women who are loving and affectionate. Woman who are able to have children because it is by these women that my followers will supersede the followers of the other prophets in number on the Day of Judgment”.

(Sunnan Abu Dawud English trans. Vol.2 pg.545 No.2046)

If you don’t love these things something is wrong with you : women, children, cattle horses  it’s your natural instinct.

Allah (SWT) said in the Qur'an surah Al Anfal verse 2

And know that your possessions and your children are but a trial and that surely with Allah is a mighty reward.

(Al-Anfal 8:2)

Sometimes your kids make you become coward you don’t want to go for jihaad, some times they make you become stingy, and you don’t want to give sadaqa.

A'ishah, once when a child was brought to the Prophet (Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam), he fondled him and said, 'These children make cowards and misers of the parents. And they are the flowers of the Almighty.'<< NO TAKHREEJ

The Holy Prophet said: Your children at times make you become tight-fisted and cowards”. (Musnad Ahmad ibn Hanbal vol.4 pg.172)

#10 THE INSTINCT TO BE INQUISITIVE AND LOVE KNOWLEDGE

Allah (SWT) gave us this instinct so that some of us can become great scholars.

Ulamah like Abu Hanifa (RA), Malik (RA), Shafi (RA), Ahmad Ibn Hanbal (RA).

Abu Hanifa (RA) has about 500 million followers.

Pakistan, India, Bangladesh is mostly Hanafi.

The most Jews in the world is about 10 million.

One scholar from the Ummah of Muhammad (Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) has more followers than Moses (AS).

Don’t underestimate the power of Ummah of Muhammad (Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam).

Imam Shafi (RA) alone has more followers than Musa (AS).

The whole of Indonesia, Somalia, and Indonesia is Shafi (RA).

One alim/shaikh from Ummah of Muhammad (Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) has more followers than a prophet (Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam).

Don't take the Ummah of Muhammad (Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) for granted.

Even the Malikis, the whole of Nigeria is Maliki; Morocco Tunusia, Mauritania, Algeria, they are all Malikis.

Malikis: 400 million Muslims.

80 million Muslims in Algeria.

Imam Maliki (RA) alone has more followers than Musa (Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam).

The whole of West Africa is Maliki, Senegal, Guini, Burkina Faso, Mali.

Allah (SWT) gave us this scholar so we can become great scholars.

Musa (AS) travelled far to al Khidr, he was acting according to his instinct.

Allah (SWT) said in the Quran surah Al Kahf verse 66 to 69.

Musa (Moses) said to him (Khidr) "May I follow you so that you teach me something of that knowledge (guidance and true path) which you have been taught (by Allah)?" He (Khidr) said: "Verily! You will not be able to have patience with me! "And how can you have patience about a thing which you know not?"  Musa (Moses) said: "If Allah will, you will find me patient, and I will not disobey you in aught."

(Al-Kahf 18:66-69)

Allah (SWT) said in the Quran surah Al Mujadilah verse 11.

O you who believe! When you are told to make room in the assemblies, (spread out and) make room. Allah will give you (ample) room (from His Mercy). And when you are told to rise up [for prayers, Jihad (holy fighting in Allah's Cause), or for any other good deed], rise up. Allah will exalt in degree those of you who believe, and those who have been granted knowledge. And Allah is Well-Acquainted with what you do.

(Al-Mujadilah 58:11)

Allah (SWT) gave us this instinct for us to become great scholars.

Allah (SWT) said in the Quran surah Az Zumar verse 9

Say: "Are those who know equal to those who know not?" It is only men of understanding who will remember (i.e. get a lesson from Allah's Signs and Verses).

(Az-Zumar 39:9)

#11 TO FEEL JEALOUSY OVER YOUR WIFE, DAUGHTERS AND OTHER MUSLIM WOMEN

This instinct is called ghaira (jealousy).

A Muslim is jealous over all Muslim women.

He doesn't want to see a kafir messing about with Muslim girls.

A Muslim man killed a kafir because he was messing with Muslim women (he was a pimp).

A real Muslim is jealous over every single Muslim woman.

If you have no Ghaira, you will never enter paradise.

Narrated By Abu Huraira: The Prophet; said, “Indeed, Allah has Ghayrah, and the faithful believer has Ghayrah, and the Ghayrah which Allah has is provoked when a believer commits that which Allah has forbidden.”

[Al-Bukhari (4925) and Muslim (2761)]

If you have no Ghaira, you are a dayooth.

Abdullah ibn Umar reported that the Messenger of Allah (SAW) said: "Three people will not enter paradise and Allah will not look to them on the Day of Judgment: the one who is disobedient to his parents, the woman who imitates men and the ad-Dayooth (cuckold, weak man who feels no jealousy over his womenfolk)..."

[Musnad Ahmad (2/134) No. 6180, Musnad al-Bazzar (12/270) No. 6051, al-Sunnan al-Kubra al-Nasa'i (2/63) No. 2354, al-Mu’jam al-Awsat al-Tabarani (3/51) No. 2443]

Dayooth, a man who allows his wife and daughter to become corrupted in front of his eyes and he turns a blind eye.

#12 TO DEFEND YOURSELF

Allah (SWT) prescribed Jihad to defend yourself.

Allah (SWT) said in the Quran surah Al Baqarah verse 216

Jihad (holy fighting in Allah's Cause) is ordained for you (Muslims) though you dislike it, and it may be that you dislike a thing which is good for you and that you like a thing which is bad for you. Allah knows but you do not know.

(Al-Baqarah 2:216)

You need to use Jihad to defend yourself, fighting is prescribed for you.

According to law of nature there is a thing called Qaanoon ad daf3.

This is to resist to exist.

Qaanoon means law.

Allah (SWT) said in the Quran surah Al Baqarah verse 251

And if Allah did not check one set of people by means of another, the earth would indeed be full of mischief. But Allah is full of Bounty to the 'Alamin (mankind, jinns and all that exists).

(Al-Baqarah 2:251)

If the Kuffar knows you have rockets that can flatten his city, he wont attack your city.

Obama wanted to go into syria and the Russians and Chinese said "Syria is not like Iraq" so he backed down.

When Bush was in power, Putin invaded Georgia and Bush could not do anything about it.

You say Obama was weak, yet when Bush was in power, Putin invaded Georgia and couldn't stop it.

Now Obama is in power, Putin took Crimea, Obama could do nothing.

One nation is checked by another nation.

If Russia and China did not unite as one single Bloc, America would have been a rogue state invading every country in the world.

But they prevented America from invading Syria.

Obama had to stay out of Syria.

This principle is called Qanoon ad Daf3, the law of repelling.

India wanted to invade Pakistan, when Pakistan acquired nuclear bomb, they didnt want to invade anymore.

Otherwise India would have walked over Pakistan.

One nation is used to contain other nations.

#13 THE INSTINCT TO LOVE WEALTH

Allah (SWT) made trading Halal and Riba' haram.

Communism failed because it went against the natural instinct of man.

Allah (SWT) said in the Quran surah Al Baraqah verse 275.

That is because they say: "Trading is only like Riba (usury)," whereas Allah has permitted trading and forbidden Riba (usury).

(Al-Baqarah 2:275)

Its modern day slavery.

Allah (SWT) has permitted trading, the market economy.

"This shop, market, etc is mine" because you want to progress this causes the economy to grow.

Otherwise the economy would grind to a halt.

Communism went against natural instinct in other fronts as well, spiritually, socially
don't forget your portion of the dunya.

Allah (SWT) said in the Quran surah Al Qasas verse 77

But seek, with that (wealth) which Allah has bestowed on you, the home of the Hereafter, and forget not your portion of legal enjoyment in this world, and do good as Allah has been good to you, and seek not mischief in the land. Verily, Allah likes not the Mufsidun (those who commit great crimes and sins, oppressors, tyrants, mischief-makers, corrupts).

(Al-Qasas 28:77)

Allah (SWT) said in the Quran surah Al Baqarah verse 26.

Shaitan (Satan) threatens you with poverty and orders you to commit Fahsha (evil deeds, illegal sexual intercourse, sins etc.); whereas Allah promises you Forgiveness from Himself and Bounty, and Allah is All-Sufficient for His creatures' needs, All-Knower.

(Al-Baqarah 2:26)

Shaitan uses poverty as a weapon, there is no good in it.

In many countries like India, Pakistan, Morocco, there are Muslim prostitutes because of poverty.

Umar ibn al Khattab (RA) said "if poverty was a man I would have killed him with my own hands"

Anas Ibn Malik narrated the Messenger of Allah (SAW) said: “Poverty, in all probability, leads to unbelief (kufr)...”

[Al-Bayhaqi narrated in 'Shu’ab al-Eemaan' (9/12) No. 6188 and Abu Na'eem narrated in 'Hileeyat al-Awwleeyah' (3/109)]

Poverty leads to Kufr.

You can’t make takfir on Muslim prostitutes because zina is not major kufr.

It’s not their fault, there is no Zakah system to look after them.

#14 THE INSTINCT TO LOVE DELICIOUS FOOD AND DRINK

When there was no Caliph, the first thing the Muslims stopped was Zakah.

Shaitan uses this instinct against you, and turns you into a person who practice gluttony.

Ibn Umar (RA) reported that the Prophet (SAW) said, “The believer eats in one intestine, while the disbeliever eats in seven intestines.’

[Al-Bukhari (5393) and Muslim (2061)]

The munafiq eats with seven intestines.

The fattest country in the world is USA, the fattest in Europe is UK.

Some people are clinically or morbidly obese.

Morbidly means eating yourself to death.

East Sussex in UK, the police had to arrest a man and take him to custody, because he was eating himself to death.

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Allah (SWT) said in the Quran surah Muhammad verse 12

Certainly! Allah will admit those who believe (in the Oneness of Allah Islamic Monotheism) and do righteous good deeds, to Gardens under which rivers flow (Paradise), while those who disbelieve enjoy themselves and eat as cattle eat, and the Fire will be their abode.

(Muhammad 47:12)

The Kuffar eat like cattle, this is why obesity is rife.

#15 THE INSTINCT TO TAKE REVENGE

Allah (SWT) said in the Quran surah Al Baqarah verse 179

And there is (a saving of) life for you in Al-Qisas (the Law of Equality in punishment), O men of understanding, that you may become Al-Muttaqun (the pious - see V.2:2)

(Al-Baqarah 2:179)

Qisas means capital punishment.

Allah (SWT) gave us this instinct to preserve life.

#16 TO COVER YOUR NAKEDNESS

Allah (SWT) said in the Quran surah Al Araf verse 22

So he misled them with deception. Then when they tasted of the tree, that which was hidden from them of their shame (private parts) became manifest to them and they began to stick together the leaves of Paradise over themselves (in order to cover their shame). And their Lord called out to them (saying) : "Did I not forbid you that tree and tell you: Verily, Shaitan (Satan) is an open enemy unto you?"

(Al-A'raf 7:22)

It’s your natural instinct to cover your private parts.

Adam (AS) and Eve instinctively covered their privates.

Report of Abu Horarari (RA)  the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “During the last days of my ummah there will be women who are clothed but naked, with something on their heads like the humps of camels. Curse them, for they are cursed.” Another hadeeth adds: “They will not enter Paradise or even smell its fragrance, although its fragrance can be detected from such and such a distance.”

(Narrated by Muslim)

In a society where people do not cover their Aura, this is against the natural instinct.

Allah (SWT) said in the Quran surah Al A'raf verse 27

O Children of Adam! Let not Shaitan (Satan) deceive you, as he got your parents [Adam and Hawwa (Eve)] out of Paradise, stripping them of their raiments, to show them their private parts. Verily, he and Qabiluhu (his soldiers from the jinns or his tribe) see you from where you cannot see them. Verily, We made the Shayatin (devils) Auliya' (protectors and helpers) for those who believe not.

(Al-A'raf 7:27)

The human shayateen like to look at private parts of people.

They corrupt what is pure.

They even have child prostitution.

17 THE INSTINCT TO LOVE AND HATE FOR THE SAKE OF ALLAH (SWT)

This instinct comes naturally when you are a believer.

When you are a believer, you don’t have to make an effort to practice Al wala Wal bara.

Allah (SWT) said in the Quran surah Al Mujadilah verse 22.

You (O Muhammad SAW) will not find any people who believe in Allah and the Last Day, making friendship with those who oppose Allah and His Messenger (Muhammad SAW ), even though they were their fathers, or their sons, or their brothers, or their kindred (people). For such He has written Faith in their hearts, and strengthened them with Ruh (proofs, light and true guidance) from Himself. And We will admit them to Gardens (Paradise) under which rivers flow, to dwell therein (forever). Allah is pleased with them, and they with Him. They are the Party of Allah. Verily, it is the Party of Allah that will be the successful.

(Al-Mujadilah 58:22)

Anas bin Malik (RA) reported: The Prophet (SAW) said, "There are three qualities whoever has them, will taste the sweetness of Iman (faith): To love Allah and His Messenger (SAW) more than anyone else; to love a slave (of Allah) only for (the sake of) Allah; and to abhor returning to infidelity after Allah has saved him from it as he would abhor to be thrown into the fire (of Hell)."

[Al-Bukhari (21) and Muslim (43)]

If you have the above qualities you have the sweetness of iman.

The last (17th) is different in that its acquired when you are a believer.